There's just something about you that's sooo appealing!
Have you ever seen someone across the aisle from you in a theater or in the corner of a room at a party, and there was just something about them that gravitated you towards them? Some kinds of attraction are so instantaneous that they can take your breath away.
Sometimes these immediate attractions morph into something lasting, and other times they fizzle away.
If an attraction is only based on the physical, it usually isn't lasting. I remember a guy I went to school with who was so hot that everyone was immediately attracted to him. Unfortunately, the minute he opened his mouth and said something, the attraction started to dissipate and the more he talked, the less that people were attracted to him.
It wasn’t that he was evil, stupid or just a bad guy, it’s that beneath his amazing body and beautiful face, he was kind of boring and simple. He was a huge disappointment.
Most of us have something that catches the eyes of other people — perhaps it’s a dazzling smile, or maybe it’s the way the person pays attention to the person they are speaking to.
We need an initial attraction to propel us to action and then we need a more solid attraction to keep us interested. Not everything that triggers an attraction is physical, which is good because then the attraction has a better chance of lasting.
There are times when you’re attracted to someone because they are charming and delightful and you find yourself drawn to them. You might not have been attracted to them at first but maybe they made you laugh and you felt yourself warming to them.
You radiate enthusiasm and energy. You love action and competition and if someone sees you in your element — whether it's playing tennis or climbing a mountain — they can't help but be attracted to you. It's clear that you're never boring and are up for any challenge, and being with you is an adventure itself.
You're all in when you turn your attention to somebody and it makes them feel as if they're the most interesting person in the world. It's intoxicating when you ask someone about themselves and appear to be enthralled by them.
You're the perfect host and the life of every party, and it's impossible not to be charmed by you. You give enough information to be intriguing and it's very difficult for people to figure you out. Who wouldn't be intrigued by the mystery of you?
It's your empathy that triggers attraction. When you talk to people, your compassion and sensitivity to what they're going through draw them to you. You give off a feeling of understanding that even those who aren't having a one-on-one conversation with you can sense. You get people on a very emotional level and they sense that.
Because you're a natural leader, people are immediately drawn to you. You're usually surrounded by fans and it makes those who aren't in your inner circle want to find out why you're so popular. You're a star, pure and simple, and who wouldn't want you to shine your light on them?
In any situation, it's easy to pick up on how purely yourself you are. There's no pretense, you don't hide behind a false persona — you are just you and it's very attractive. The fact that you know practically everything and can solve any problem is very appealing as well.
You're hilarious and can make almost anyone laugh. Having an amazing sense of humor is surprisingly sexy; plus, most Libras are very attractive. Hot + funny = irresistible.
You're passionate AF and that's extremely attractive. If someone sees you while you're doing something you feel passionate about, they'll be immediately attracted to you. Your raw sensuality is also extremely captivating. There's a reason they say that the primary characters of romance novels are usually Scorpios.
You feed off new things, and your excitement about the places you go and the people you meet is contagious. You make an unbelievable first impression and it's hard not to be attracted to you when you get to talking about the places you've been and the travel plans you have for the future.
It's your confidence level that's immediately attractive. Not even the hottest body or the most beautiful face can compete with confidence. You sometimes come off as arrogant which doesn't take anything away from your attractiveness — if anything, it adds to it.
You're authentic, and because you're so unique you allow and encourage others to reveal their true selves. In addition, you're a brilliant and original thinker and everybody knows how attractive intelligence is. All someone needs to do is to hear you speak or see you in action and they're hooked.
You're incredibly creative and imaginative, and who isn't immediately attracted to the artist type? You might be an artist, musician, photographer, or writer, but whatever you are creativity involved with makes you exceptionally attractive to those who witness you doing your thing.