THIS is a huge turn-off.
Contrary to popular myths, men don't like every kind of sex, every time. There are certain aspects or moves that can definitely take the fun out of sex for some men.
What may be a major turn-on for one guy is a complete turn-off for another. Some men may really get off on having a finger stuck up their butt, while that move could stop another cold — it's the same with being slapped in the face or biting too forcefully.
There's a whole laundry list of things that men find really off-putting in regards to sex. We all know about the taboo of immediate spitting after oral sex, but what about being a squirter and not warning your partner beforehand so he can put out some towels?
When sex is involved, it's never a good idea to bring up your ex — not before, during or after. Also, never ask if it was good for them; just assume it was, and hopefully, you both can tell each other what you don't and do like.
While our partners want us to feel comfortable with them, many seem to resent normal things we do, like immediately changing into comfy pajamas, wearing granny panties every day, and using the bathroom with the door open pre- or post-sex.
But you shouldn't be the only one making concessions for your partner. Let them know what really turns you off and what really gets you excited. We need to be able to be honest with our partners, even if it seems awkward.
If you get angry when your partner gets aroused after suggesting that you watch some porn before having sex, that's something you need to be aware of. Don't suggest doing something only because you think it will make him happy, because ultimately, it won't make anyone happy.
Here's what he can't stand in bed, according to his zodiac sign.
Aries men hate when women talk in a baby voice all the time, but especially during sex. Aries men like their sex to be hot and fast, and they need a woman who is confident, strong and can handle their urgent needs. If you talk in a baby voice, it just makes his sexual dominance seem creepy and wrong.
The last thing that Taurus wants in bed is a flesh wound, so be careful how you bite. Taurus are all about sensuality and pleasure, not pain. If you bite in an aggressive way that draws blood, you're guaranteed to turn Taurus right off.
Gemini men can't stand it when you don't speak up when you don't like it. If anal isn't for you, don't try to fake enthusiasm for it. He wants to know what you like and what you don't like. Communication between partners is what Gemini finds especially erotic.
Cancers can't stand it when you make a big deal over his junk, especially if he's not packing. Go for affection over fake admiration. Cancers are sensitive, and if you pretend, they'll just feel insecure — that's a real boner-killer.
Leos do not, repeat do not, like it when their partner has their eyes closed the whole time. Leos want to put on a show in bed, and they can't do that if their audience's eyes are shut.
Virgos really hate it when their partner pretends that they don't care if they didn't orgasm. Virgos make it their life's mission to make sure you get yours. Seriously, they'll do research and everything, so if you act if it's no big deal, they get frustrated enough for the both of you.
Libras don't enjoy it when, instead of a forceful touch of his penis, you use a vice grip. Hey, the point is some friction, not to pull it off. Also, mix it up, don't do the same thing over and over again.
Scorpios can't stand it when their partners make a ton of fake noise when they orgasm — it's lying in Scorpio's book. If you want to make some noise, make it, just don't pretend you're having a mind-blowing orgasm if you're not.
Sagittarius men don't like when you say their name over and over again. Once or twice is cool, but not on a repeated loop — then it just becomes annoying.
Capricorn men, especially Capricorn men with short hair, don't like having their hair pulled out by the roots. Sure, hair samples are great if it's a crime scene, but not if it's some healthy adult fun.
Aquarius men don't like it when their partner lies there like a slug, making Aquarius do all the work. Sex should be a joint effort and it's not up to Aquarius to be in control of your orgasm.