Find out what really gets him going.
Is having sex appeal the same as being hot or sexy? Not exactly. When you have sex appeal, it means you have certain qualities that draw people to you. Yes, you're probably attractive but you may not be drop dead gorgeous; it may be some quality that's hard to pin down.
When you have sex appeal, you are generally good-looking in a sexual way — you have a sexiness, sensuality and a large amount of desirability. Many times the people with the greatest sex appeal aren't the most beautiful in the room, but they are the ones who are the most confident and charismatic. We're drawn to people with sex appeal and may not know why they just seem to possess some kind of immediate appeal that excites us and makes us want to engage with them.
While the term sex appeal may not be used in conversation, it's still a quality that exists. We want to be appealing to people, especially people we are having or want to have sex with. But if you weren't blessed with an abundance of sex appeal, are there ways of developing it?
One of the most appealing personality traits someone can have is confidence. If you're self-assured, confident and are good at flirting, your sex appeal quotient will rise.
Sex appeal can be universal, but it can also be specific to the individual. You might be very attracted to someone who smiles all the time and looks you directly in the eye, while your friend might be more turned on by someone arrogant and proud.
As usual, the stars are here to help you out and give you some guidance to develop a sex appeal that the objection of your affection will go wild for. You'll be surprised at how much it can vary from sign to sign. Here's the kind of sex appeal he goes crazy for based on his zodiac sign.
The type of sex appeal that really works on many levels for an Aries is someone who is hard-to-get, can hold their own in a conversation, and isn't afraid to speak their mind. Aries are enthusiastic, independent, and adventurous.
Their fast-paced lifestyle can be challenging for some people, so they find people who are willing to be all-in, no matter what. They won't be able to resist you if you're spontaneous, whip-smart, and let them know you're very impressed with them and their personality.
Taurus individuals find people who make them laugh, and are gently flirtatious, very appealing. If you're too aggressive or in-your-face with a Taurus, they will be turned-off. If you're self-assured, sensual and stable (both financially and emotionally), Taurus will gravitate to you.
Taureans don't go for flashy and showy people; they're attracted to down to earth people who are great listeners and who show an interest in Taurus and their ideas.
You won't get a second chance with Gemini because, for them, the first impression is the last impression. Be ready with your A-game of being an engaging conversationalist and a genius debater; you'll need be able to provide intellectual stimulation in order to catch Gemini's attention and keep it. They get turned on by witty banter, and if you can hold your own in an argument, it's as sexy as if you were bathed in pheromones.
You know how it can be a bad idea to show your emotions when you first meet someone? Well, it's not true with a Cancer. If you show your feelings to a Cancer, they'll see you as someone understanding and trustworthy, and may feel safe enough to let you in. Cancers find people who are sincere very appealing as being fake doesn't fly with Cancer. Be your real self and Cancer will find you difficult to resist.
Leos are full of sex appeal themselves — it's just one of the many fine qualities, such as charm and strength, that they possess. In order to attract a Leo, you need to be amusing and entertaining. You'll need to have a sense of humor, be attractive, and be extremely smart and/or interesting. Oh, and flattery will always get you somewhere. Sex appeal is great, just don't try to outshine Leo or their attraction will disappear.
If you want to impress a Virgo, be ready to talk intelligently on a variety of subjects and be sure the conversations end on a logical note. Virgos are attracted to educated, intelligent, well-behaved, and well-mannered people. In other words, not talking with your mouth full and not being on your phone during a meal goes a long way with Virgo.
Strong and decisive is the new sexy for Libra. If you show that you're interested in knowing them better and ask questions about their work, hobbies, and dreams, they'll be very attracted. Since Libras are naturally charming and helpful, it won't be difficult to compliment them. If you praise them when they're least expecting it, they'll find you inescapably seductive.
Warning: Scorpios have a built-in bullsh*t meter, so be genuine. If you're not real, Scorpio will know immediately and be completely turned off. It may not seem especially flirtatious, but if you clearly tell them what you're feeling, they will find themselves drawn to your honesty. Although they don't like humor directed at themselves, they can enjoy some humor, especially if it's on the naughty side.
If you radiate a free spirit and the desire to not to infringe on their personal freedom, a Sagittarius will find you very alluring. Share your experiences and describe your wildest adventures, as Sagittarius has more than a touch of wanderlust. If you're somebody who can stimulate their desire to learn and has a willingness to do almost anything, Sagittarius will be very interested in you.
It may not be especially appealing to you, but Capricorn finds that someone who takes great care of the responsibilities of life, and who has an authoritative attitude, very sexually appealing. Responsible is the new sexy for Capricorn.
For an Aquarius, the most sexually appealing aspect that someone can have is individuality. If you have your own style and point of view, you couldn't be any hotter to an Aquarius. They'll notice you the moment you walk into the room. If you do it in your own way and can provide stimulating conversation and new ideas, they'll be hooked.
If you're upbeat, confident and manage to bring a little joy wherever you go, Pisces will rate you high in sexual appeal. If you're compassionate, nurturing and make them feel safe, Pisces will be yours.