Plan in advance for some fun!
The key to surviving the insanity of life is friends. They are there to cheer us up, to support us, to make us laugh to comfort us when we cry. They make life interesting and make life fun and just plain old better.
And every once in a while, you and your friends just NEED to do something together and catch up on life. Even if you’re happily taken or have a family of your own, sometimes you just need your girls.
Which can be anything but easy, once you hit the real world.
We know how hard and stressful it can be to plan a girls night.
With everyone having their own lives, it can be hard to find a time and day that works for everyone. And then you have to pick something to do which can be frustrating (especially if you feel like you’re the one to always to do it). Often times it ends up being the same thing on the same day at the same time which helps but can get boring after a while (ok, after like three times).
But have no fear! We are here to help you.
No matter what stages of life you and your girls are and no matter how much money you want to spend, there are plenty of different options for a girls night out or in-whatever fits your lives!
Need some suggestions? Here are 21 fun girls night suggestions that don’t require a huge budget!
Whether you spend a day or go for just a couple hours, the beach is a great place for a group of friends to hang out together (and get your tan and beach waves on!) - what's not to love?
Head over to 6Flags or Disney (if you're lucky enough to live close by) or a nearby boardwalk. If rollercoasters aren't your thing, go a local arcade instead and find out which of you is queen of the arcade!
Splurge and go out to a wine tasting event or stay in and buy a few different bottles of cheap wine. Drink, discuss and enjoy and maybe even find a new wine you just have to have.
You know that band you all love belting out to? Find some cheap tickets and go see them together. Or find some new upcoming band together that is playing for free somewhere and maybe you'll discover the next big thing. Either way, concerts are a lot of fun and a great experience.
Everyone can bring their favorite recipes for you all to cook or bake together. Sample them all and vote on your favorites!
If you haven't heard of Escape the Room, now you have. You are "locked" inside a themed room with a back story as to why you're trying to escape...a great way for you and your friends to be the detectives you've always wanted to be! (Note: this is something you can do even if you've already done one! There are so many different companies that do it with so many different themes....no two room is exactly the same.)
Find something (either in your hometown or in a nearby big city) that all tourists do but that you've all never actually done. Now go do it! Or find a tour that's cheap and will take you to some famous cites. When was the last time you actually did something touristy?
You can relive your childhood with everyone's favorite animated movie. You can feed your fantasy addictions with Lord of the RIngs or Harry Potter marathons. You can watch everyone's top favorite Nicholas Sparks movies. Or better yet, you can just have a man-crush marathon (because who doesn't like an excuse to watch hot men for hours?). Whatever your group is interested in, this is sure to appeal to everyone.
Bring your own props and outfits and glam up! Give it a theme or just make it glamorous and let loose as you all take pictures (together and of each other). No one will be the wiser that it's all staged and you guys will all come out having amazing new profile pictures!
When was the last time you guys have a sleepover-the kind you had when you were little? Bring back some memories. Watch some make-up tutorials and see who does it best. Do each others make-up as you talk about guys. Embrace your inner kids!
You don't even have to go out to do either! Sing along to your favorite songs and dance around to loud music in someone's own home! How else will those amazingly embarrassing videos you all share a couple of years from now be made?
Take a group zumba class or go on a hike or do some yoga. Make your girls night the push to work out and have fun with your friends as you burn off some weight.
Whether you actually buy things or just try stuff on or even just go window shopping. Retail therapy is more fun when you do it with your friends.
Design some glass works, paint some ceramics or make your own pottery. Go to a paint night or make one yourself and have everyone paint the same picture or try painting each other!
You know all of those DIY arts & crafts thing you've all always wanted to try to make? Or that article you saved about homemade body care products? Have everyone bring a couple of their favorites and you can all try them out together!
This is a great option because it can be as expensive or as inexpensive as you guys want. It can range from you all going to an actual spa together or just getting your nails done together or having a stay-in spa day. Get some face masks, nail polish, scrubs and you're ready for some pampering.
Ok, the booze is optional (although it could make the games more fun). But when was the last time any of you sat down to an intense game of charades or Monopoly? Trust us, it can be just as fun now as it was when you were younger.
It can be a cooking class, surfing lessons, or learning how to pole dance (yes, they have classes for that). Trying something none of you have ever done before is a great way to make new memories because you are all starting at the same place: the beginning.
If you and your friends are into art or history, find an inexpensive (or better yet, free) museum to walk around in and then go out to eat afterwards so you can discuss it all like the sophisticated ladies you are.
Go ice skating or rollerblading or maybe even some bowling. It's probably been a while since you guys have done any of those things, remind yourselves how fun they can be.
It can be to an apple picking farm a hour or so away or a hotel a few hours away and just stopping randomly along the way. The journey there can be just as much fun as the destination if you're with the right people.
No matter what you choose, make sure you go ready to have a lot of fun and take lots of pictures so you can all remember it forever.