Is Bigger Better? 7 Women Weigh In On The Size-Matters Debate

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Is bigger always better in bed? Or is it all about technique? Women get real about your package.

It's the age-old question: Is bigger better? Well, is it? It seems that when it comes to penis size men are far more concerned than women when it comes to the size of their member. You often hear women say that it's all about how you use it, but still, size has to come into play at some point — doesn't it?

We asked a few women their thoughts on penis size. We asked them to be as honest as possible, because we really want to know — we ALL want to know once and for all. Hopefully, with the women's insight below, we're one step closer to figuring out if bigger truly is better or if technique is the biggest winner of all.

Yes, bigger is better.
"I like a big one, both for physical and visual pleasure (is there anything sadder-looking than a small d*ck?) By big, I mean between 7-9 inches. Nine gets into painful territory, but I still like how it looks," says Amanda, 25.

"I have some sort of tiny-peen beacon. If a man wants to take me home from a bar, he's got a small peen. Plenty of research. Plenty of disappointment. I'm not a size-queen, but something larger than a tampon would be nice, ya know? That said, size DOES matter. Anyone who says different is trying to spare your feelings, boys," says Serena 29.

It's all about the fit.
"So for a whole I would've said I didn't care, then I hooked up with a recently-brokenhearted coworker and discovered why that might have happened — three inches erect, if at all. I shamefully slept with him twice. While size is not important, maybe it's a chicken or egg question. Average men have produced the best results. Hugest dick ever was 11-13 inches — no idea how to quantify, but it was amazing. I'd follow the usual it's-how-you-use-it, but I'm pretty disappointed in that. So I do think not-small is important," says Annaliese, 33.

"I firmly believe it's all about the fit. I've been with guys of all sizes but the one I married fits the best and gets all the good spots. I don't know if it's a mental thing because I'm in love with the guy attached, or if it's legit science," says Carly, 30.

Small can be a good thing  sometimes.
"The greatest oral sex of my life was with a guy who had the smallest penis I'd ever seen. He was well aware that it was small, so I think that's why he made up for it by his amazing tongue skills. As for actual intercourse, I honestly had a really hard time feeling if it was in there or not. You at least want to be able to feel it and not have to ask if it's in there yet. However, I wouldn't have traded his tongue for a bigger dick even if my life depended on it," says Lynne, 33.

Too big? Too scary.
"I think it only matters if you are on the extremes (very small or very large). Otherwise, how you use it is WAY more important. And as a smaller lady, I am a big fan of average. The fastest way to send me running is to brag about your huge cock. Ouch. NO," says Becky, 29.

"I have actually been thinking about this a lot. I have encountered some lil' guys and had no idea what I'm used to is much larger than what I thought. Size matters. If you're small it just isn't as satisfying. Personally, I need size and talent. You don't have to be huge, but I prefer when there's a lil something-something there. That being said, if you're too big I'll just leave," says Autumn, 25

Does size matter to you? Tell us in the comments below.

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