When you're dating someone new, there can be a lot of pressure to sleep together early on. But do all guys expect to have sex right away? And what if you want to wait until you're in an explicitly monogamous relationship before going all the way? Will he wait?

In this video, dating coach, matchmaker and YourTango Expert Joe Amoia addresses these complicated questions. "The most important thing," says Joe, "is to make the guy feel like he's got a say in the decision, and the best way for you to do that is to communicate your rules upfront." Are My High Expectations Setting Me Up For Failure?

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