Are My High Expectations Setting Me Up For Failure?

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Are your unrealistic expectations sabotaging your relationships? Find out!

Dating and relationships can be tough to navigate. You want to meet the right man for you, but you fear that your high expectations are setting you on a course towards failure and loneliness. Can you truly hold onto what you're looking for in a relationship without driving men away? Is there a way to really "have it all?"

In this video, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Joe Amoia says that you don't have to lower your expectations to find happiness. Rather, replace the word "expectations" with the word "standards." "Instead of having expectations," says Amoia, "you have standards ... you now have a certain level that a man needs to live up to."

Want to learn more? Watch the video above.

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