How To Prolong Foreplay

By

couple massage
... because anticipation is half the fun!

Ready to unleash way more pleasure? Join The Pleasure Mechanics Inner Circle for free weekly sex advice, exclusive giveaways and more! 

Most women want more foreplay before we can enjoy the pleasures of intercourse. Foreplay is essential to build arousal before penetration of any kind, and most of us can't get enough. Here are five ideas to get more foreplay every time you make love:

1. Foreplay all day. Foreplay can start long before you hit the sheets. Let your erotic tension build all day by allowing yourself to think about sex. Allow your thoughts to wander and daydream vividly about what you want to experience when you get together with your lover. The more detail you bring to your fantasies, the better. Your mind will start to get your body on board and you may find yourself more aroused when you finally see your lover.

By allowing the foreplay to start in your own imagination, you'll not only prime your body but give yourself the chance to get clear about what exactly you are craving. Do you want tender, gentle lovemaking? Or do you want to be roughed up and tossed around tonight? Let your erotic imagination lead the way! Don't know what you really want in bed? Check out The Fantasy Method for an interactive guide into your erotic imagination!

2. Enjoy a massage as foreplay. It can be hard to transition from a busy day to feeling like a sex goddess. If you need to de-stress and get in the zone, try massage. Even five minutes of massage can flip your switch from stress to relaxation, bring your attention to the sensation in your body and reconnect with your lover.

But don't just settle for an amateur back rub. Learn how to exchange deep, satisfying massage with The Pleasure Mechanics Couples Massage videos! Soon, you'll be swooning under your lover's confident touch and your stress will melt away, allowing you to relax into pleasure and get ready for a delicious session of making love.

3. Take control in bed. If your lover is always in a rush to get to intercourse, slow things down by taking control. Ask your lover to relax on the bed and then take your time lavishing his body with slow touch. Every time your lover tries to touch you, lightly slap their hand away and let them know that you are in control for the moment.

Try flipping your lover over so they are face down and kiss and nibble their shoulders and neck. Let them feel your body pressing into theirs, your weight pinning them down. Slowly build the anticipation and only allow your lover to touch you when his desire has become urgent, throbbing and immediate. Keep reading ...

More foreplay advice from YourTango:

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

Pleasure Mechanics

Sex Educator

Ready to become a better lover and unleash way more pleasure? We're here to guide you every step of the way!

Exclusive Offer For YourTango Readers! Use the code YourTango to receive 20% off any of our 10 foreplay mastery or couples massage video guides! www.PleasureMechanics.com

Location: New York, NY
Credentials: Other
Other Articles/News by Pleasure Mechanics:

Best Sex Positions For Maximizing Your Pleasure

By

Want more pleasurable, more orgasmic sex? If so, you are not alone. As the sex experts at PleasureMechanics.com, we hear from men and women all over the world who love their partner but want to turn up the heat during sex. The good news is that there are lots of ways to make sex way more fun and more orgasmic for women. One way to explore more orgasmic sex is ... Read more

Be A Tease: Give Him A Lap Dance

By

Have you ever fantasized about transfixing your guy with a slow striptease? Do you want to tap into your inner diva and master the art of seduction?  As the sex experts at PleasureMechanics.com, we hear from men and women all over the world who want to improve their sex lives and become better lovers. One of the most common questions is how to initiate ... Read more

Get Intimate: 5 Sex Positions To Bring You Closer To Your Partner

By

Do you want to explore new sex positions to improve your love life? If so, you are not alone. Many people think that new positions will rekindle the lost spark of intimacy and set their sex life on fire. If only it were as easy as switching positions! The truth is that acrobatic sex positions won't improve your sex life if you don't also make an ... Read more

See More

GET MORE ARTICLES LIKE THIS IN YOUR INBOX!

Sign up for our daily email and get the stories everyone is talking about.

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

Stories we love
FROM AROUND THE WEB