People With High Mental & Emotional Credibility Usually Say 7 Phrases In Casual Conversation
SofikoS | Shutterstock When our loved ones are going through tough times, it can be difficult to know what to say. We want to make them feel comforted and loved, but often the words escape us. Communication coach Raele Altano helps with this by sharing seven phrases, most often said by people with emotional credibility, to console someone who is struggling.
People with high mental and emotional credibility usually say these phrases in casual conversation:
1. 'I’m so sorry this is happening'
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Credible people use this phrase to express sincere sympathy and regret for a challenging situation, acknowledging the difficulty the person is facing and conveying sorrow for their experience. This gesture is often appreciated by those seeking comfort and is appropriate during breakups, family crises, financial losses, and similar situations.
2. 'That’s very frustrating, and I can understand why you feel that way'
This compassionate phrase acknowledges a person’s frustration and shows that you empathize with their feelings. Shifting from “I’m sorry you feel that way” to “I can understand why you feel that way” is not only kinder phrasing but also fosters a deeper sense of understanding.
3. 'What can I do to help?'
Or even better, 'Can I take this off your plate to help?' When people face difficult situations, they need support but aren't always willing or able to ask for it themselves. Offering help can make a huge difference, especially if they feel overwhelmed.
“Sometimes offering specific help to someone in distress is more beneficial because you are taking away their responsibility of having to think of how you can help,” Altano added. "By taking a more proactive approach and asking, 'Can I take this off your plate?' you’re identifying specific tasks you can handle and removing the pressure of having to ask.
4. 'Do you want to talk about it?'
Sometimes the answer is no. People don't always want to talk about sensitive experiences, even with their loved ones. If they respond negatively, don't pry. But this question also shows that you are an open and safe space for them to express their feelings when and if they choose to. If they say yes, be sure to actively listen and give your loved one your full attention.
5. 'Take all the time you need, I’m here to support you'
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Sometimes, giving someone space and time to navigate what they’re going through is more helpful. It relieves pressure, allowing them to process the situation at their own pace while still offering your ongoing support.
6. 'I know how much [thing/person] meant to you'
People with high emotional credibility use this warmhearted phrase to show they understand the significance of others' struggles. It’s a powerful way to demonstrate a deeper understanding and remind someone of their true friends.
7. 'You are going to get through this, and I hope you know I’m here for you'
Often, people need encouragement and reassurance to remind them of their resilience. This casual phrase expresses confidence in their ability to overcome challenges and offers your support along the way.
Our words hold power, and offering them to those in need can make a significant impact. Hearing someone credible say, "Wow, you just made my day," is a wonderful feeling, but it's even more incredible to know you made a difference in someone’s life.
Mina Rose Morales is a writer and photojournalist with a degree in journalism. She covers a wide range of topics, including psychology, self-help, relationships, and the human experience.
