Never Have I Ever is a really fun game to play, especially if you want to get to know someone quickly.
Even better? Using these Never Have I Ever dirty questions to get to know your partner's kinks, desires and turn-on's. It can be so much more fun and much faster than having a boring conversation about each others kinks and turn on's.
I'm going to give you the 20 dirtiest Never Have I Ever questions, but first you need to understand a few rules and guidelines to using these dirty questions to ensure maximum fun — without accidentally freaking someone out!
1. The Build Up
The first thing to understand before using these dirty questions is that you need to build up to them. You may be excited and want to just jump right to asking your man the dirtiest things that come to mind, but don't! Your man will be totally freaked out.
When you suggest playing Never Have I Ever with your man, start off with really easy (and almost ridiculously boring) questions like:
- Never have I ever ridden a 2-person-bike)
- Never have I ever been able to juggle
- Never have I ever been to South America
- Never have I ever made out with 2 different people in the same week
As you both loosen up and begin to enjoy the game, start to slowly get a little dirtier and naughtier.
2. Get Loose
Playing Never Have I Ever while you are feeling nervous, awkward or not very relaxed is setting yourself up for failure, so a better way to play it is to get loose first. Dp something to help you loosen up and relax.
For some people, this involves having a beer or glass glass of wine — but don't get so drunk that you can barely remember what happened! For others it could be something as simple as just joking around beforehand.
Whatever you need to do to loosen up beforehand will differ, but the main thing is to figure out how to help yourself to relax and have more fun.
Another important thing to keep in mind is that although I am going to give you 20 dirty examples on what to ask your man, it's important to adapt and improvise these to fit you and your man.
So when you read, "Never have I ever had sex with 2 different people within 24 hours", you don't have to say it exactly as you read it. You could use a variation like, "Never have I ever sex with 2 different people within the same week". This way you can tailor the questions to suit both of you and a really nice side benefit is that it will help you to become more spontaneous around your man in general.
4. Don't Do This One MAJOR Thing
One very serious warning that I must give you about playing this game with dirty questions is that you should never, ever use it as a way to trick your man into revealing things about himself that you are going to use against him or resent him for.
So, if you think that it's a clever, sneaky way to find out if your man did something, you're wrong. It will only make you resent him and be angry at him which is not the goal of the game! So avoid asking questions like, "Never have I ever cheated on someone," etc.
5. Never Have I Ever Dirty Questions
Now that I have covered some of the important basics, it's time to learn some Never Have I Ever dirty questions:
- Never have I ever tried anal sex
- Never have I ever had a threesome (or a moresome!)
- Never have I ever had sex under the stars
- Never have I ever been busted masturbating by my parents
- Never have I ever been sexually attracted to someone more than 10 years older than me
- Never have I ever had a same sex experience
- Never have I ever caught a sexually transmitted infection (STI)
- Never have I ever had sex with someone whose name I can't remember
- Never have I ever had sex in a public place
- Never have I ever gone commando
- Never have I ever recorded myself and a partner having sex
- Never have I ever been to strip club
- Never have I ever been to a sex show
- Never have I ever been attracted to someone who I knew was objectively ugly
- Never have I ever regretted having sex with someone
- Never have I ever been disgusted by the smell of a partner 'down there'
- Never have I ever felt attracted to someone that everyone else thought was ugly
- Never have I ever had sex while I was drunk/high
- Never have I ever have I ever gotten aroused when being inspected down there by a doctor
- Never have I ever masturbated in the last 3 days
If you want to learn more about how to talk dirty to your man, then you will find some really powerful and sometimes very simple tips in this dirty talking tutorial video.