Masturbating should always be a fun and pleasurable experience, ending in a body-shaking, quivering goodness. That's why I want to give you these four incredible techniques on how to bring yourself to orgasm. Now some of these techniques may be a bit extreme for you, but I really hope that you will at least try them once.
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But before you you even try one of these masturbation techniques, you'll want to set the mood for sensuality by stimulating your senses.
Setting The Mood - First, you need to choose a nice scent for your room from perfumes to deodorants or incense. The choice is ultimately up to you. You then need to set up the lighting in the room. You may prefer it to be very dark or you may like having the lights only slightly dimmed to be best.
Next, eat or drink an aphrodisiac. Nibble on some dark chocolate, sip on champagne or bite into a few juicy strawberries — anything that entices your tastebuds. Turn up some music to add to the experience, whether it's some jazzy tunes or a quiet instrumental soundtrack — whatever you choose needs to relax you. Lastly — and most importantly — you need to think about touch and what you feels good on your skin, besides your own hands. (Think a silky smooth nightie.)
The final thing for setting the mood is thinking about what positions are going to work best for masturbating. Lying on your back is the obvious choice, but there are hundreds of others. In fact, you'll find over 100 different sexual positions (with professional photographs) on this site here.
The "Barely There" Technique - This is by far the simplest technique — and it's all in the flick of a finger. To get set up, you need to lie down on your back and get comfortable. You are going to be masturbating by rubbing your clitoris with just your finger.
The trick in this technique is in its subtlety. Rather than just touching it, pressing it and rubbing it, you are going to be making only the slightest amount of contact with your clitoris. It should be a feather-like touch, moving your finger from side to side. So you won't be touching all of your clitoris — just the smallest tip.
This next part is important. While rubbing this small part of your clitoris, move your finger only very slightly. You should hardly move it at all, like you are vibrating your finger instead of moving it up and down. To really get the most out of this technique, you need to continuously do it for about 15 minutes, which can obviously get tiring but is oh-so worth it. This technique will put you on the edge of orgasm the entire time you're performing it. It will feel like one continuous orgasm, without the usual peaks and troughs.
You can also incorporate this technique when you are giving your man a blowjob! Just use a tiny amount of pressure to prolong it and make it extra satisfying. If you want more blowjob tips, you may be interested in the blowjob video that you can watch here.
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