Finding a great guy is tough. Keeping a great guy is even harder. If you want to keep him around, then learning how to make him addicted to you is crucial. Here are four things that you can use to make your man addicted to you...
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1. Being incredible in bed. Without a doubt, by far the most important thing you can do to keep your man addicted to you is to make sure that you are having incredible sex together. This doesn't mean that you need to spend 15 hours a day having sex! What I mean is that when you do have sex with your man, you need to make sure it's magical.
Now magical does not mean weird, difficult to perform sexual positions or practicing hardcore BDSM (unless you are both into that!). It means that you need to start figuring out what types of things your man likes sexually. Maybe he absolutely adores regular missionary position. Or perhaps he prefers a variation of doggystyle. Maybe it's not the position that's important.
It could be talking dirty that really intensifies sex and makes it addicting for him. Or maybe seeing you in some sexy lingerie puts him over the edge. Or even a particular obscure fetish. Even getting a blowjob could be your man's biggest wish. If it is, then you'll be glad that I've got your covered with this detailed video guide. You'll find pretty much everything that you'll ever need to know on how to give a great blowjob in it.
When you are the one that can give him everything he ever wanted in the bedroom, then you can be pretty much assured that your man will become addicted to you.
2. How does he feel around you? The next time you're hanging out with your man, ask yourself this: "Is he excited to be around me?" Now this isn't something you should be worrying about every five minutes. But it is good to think about it every once in a while. If you can answer "yes" most of the time, then you can be pretty sure that your man is addicted to you.
But if you are answering, "sort of" or "not really", then you need to start thinking of what you can do to spice things up. Problem: Often in this situation, when you start to think that your man is losing attraction for you, you might feel like smothering him. Don't make this mistake.
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