Learning the right clitoral stimulation techniques is incredibly important if your want powerful, body-shaking orgasms. Whether you are masturbating alone or your manfriend is using these techniques on you, I think you are going to like them...a lot.
Now before I get to the actual techniques, I want to cover 4 very important things to make sure that you get them most out of them.
Get Comfortable, Really Comfortable — The first thing you need to do is make sure that you are comfortable before trying these clitoris stimulation techniques. If you are uncomfortable or stressed out about something, then you are going to find it much more difficult to really enjoy these techniques and tips. For most people, the privacy of their bedroom makes for the most comfortable place.
Don't get me wrong now, you can still have a ton of fun if you are stressed and uncomfortable. It's just that they won't be nearly as enjoyable as when you are totally relaxed.
Slow Down! — You may be eager to try these clitoral stimulation techniques to try to orgasm as quickly as possible. This is perfectly fine. But you'll find that it's far, far more pleasurable to take things slowly, almost to the point that you are teasing yourself. When you do eventually reach orgasm, you will be glad you took your time!
Find A Great Position — Finding a great position to give yourself the most pleasure possible while masturbating.
Use Lube — This is not a deal-breaker or something that is mandatory for having a good time, but using a great lubricant like coconut oil when masturbating is going to make for much better orgasms, especially if you have trouble self-lubricating.
Now that we have covered the boring stuff, lets get down to it and learn some fun clitoral stimulation techniques to make masturbating a whole lot more fun!
1. The Squeeze — I can't believe that more people don't know about this clitoral rubbing technique. It's so powerful, despite the fact that it's an indirect stimulation technique. There are multiple ways to perform it, so I advise that you play around with it to discover the exact things that feel best for you.
The main technique that you are going to be doing is grabbing, squeezing and moving the folds of skin that cover and are directly around your clitoris so that your clitoris is sandwiched between these folds of skin. This means that you won't ever be directly touching your clitoris. You'll be doing this with your thumb and forefingers.
When you squeeze these folds of skin between your fingers, you'll be able to feel the pressure it puts on your clitoris. It feels really good! While keeping the folds of skin firmly between your fingers, start to move your hand from side-to-side or even up and down. Doing this will feel much, much better!
Remember that different people have different preferences, so make sure to play around with this technique and experiment with squeezing different areas until you find what you prefer.
2. Feather Light — This next clitoral stimulation tip is really easy and kind of the opposite to the previous one. When using 'The Squeeze' you are going to be using quite a lot of pressure. Feather Light is completely the opposite to this. When using Feather Light, you are going to be using an absolute minimum of pressure on your clitoris, almost to the point where it will feel more like soft vibrations.
To get set up, lie down on your back and rub and small amount of lube or saliva on your clitoris and around it. Next, you are going to bring your finger to the side of your clitoris so that it's just about touching it. It should feel like a feather is touching the side of it. You shouldn't have your finger covering your entire clitoris. Instead it should be just touching the side of it.
All you need to do is simply move your finger up and down, while keeping in contact with the side of your clitoris. You will only be moving your finger a few millimetres up and down. So you will hardly be moving it at all. In fact it will feel more like gentle vibrations more than anything else. While doing this, you will notice the tension building and you may start desiring more pressure.
Don't give in!
Keep using only a feather light touch the entire time. This will help to make the whole experience feel like a really long, extended orgasm.
3. When In Doubt, Vibrate - The first 2 clitoral stimulation techniques should be more than enough to give yourself endless pleasure. But if you are still not fully satisfied, then I highly recommend that you try using a vibrator on your clitoris. It will provide a lot more 'power' if that's what you feel like you are missing.
If you enjoyed learning these 3 hot techniques, but want a to learn how to keep a guy attracted while keeping your relationship passionate, then you may be interested in watching this video tutorial. It will teach you how to turn your man on, build sexual tension and make sex a whole lot hotter. If you are more interested in learning how to give good oral sex, then you will find this instructional video very helpful.
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