Ever get bored of regular sex? If so, then you are like the vast majority of other couples out there, so don't worry. To keep things fun, interesting, and very naughty, I want to show you 4 bedroom games that you can use to keep sex with your man fun and pleasurable.
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You will notice that some of these bedroom games are on the tame side and some of them are very much on the kinkier side. So, don't feel like you need to use them all. Only try the ones you are comfortable with. Oh, and make sure to talk to your man about them so that you are both on board before diving in.
1. The Tie Down
I'm going to start off with one of the kinkiest bedroom games you can try. That is tying your man down to the bed and "having your way with him". Sounds like fun, right? It is, but you need to get a few things right if you want it to go really well.
First, you need to discuss it with your man to make sure that he is comfortable with being tied down. If he is not, then discuss it further to see if you can change his mind. Whatever you do though, do not force it on him...that's a recipe for absolute disaster.
Next you need to agree on a 'safe word' to use in case things get out of hand. Once he says this word, you need to stop what you're doing and make sure that he's okay and not in any pain or distress. A safe word should be something that you wouldn't normally say during sex, like "Israel", "potato" or "Starbucks".
As well as this, you are going to need to find something to tie your man down with. For many, stockings or some neck ties are perfect. Others want something a little sturdier. If you want something sturdier, then just google "bondage restraints" and you'll find a huge selection of curtom restraints to use on your man.
When tying him down, you can just tie his arms down by the wrists, or if you want to have him fully restrained, then you can tie his legs down, too. Once he's tied down, then you are in total control, so straddle him and start having your way with him!
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2. Dice Play
That last bedroom game is more on the domination and kinky side of things. If you are looking for a game for the bedroom that's a little lighter and will help you ease you into the idea of playing games with your man in the bedroom, then you should try the dice game.
To play it, you are going to need a pair of regular dice that have six sides. Next, you need to take a piece of paper and a pen. You are going to use the pen and paper to make two lists of six items each. On the first list, write down sex action verbs. Here's an example:
On the second list, write down a list six erogenous zones, like this example:
Remember that these are just examples, so feel free to substitute them for your own action verbs and erogenous zones if you like.
Once you have your list made, take turns at rolling the dice. When the dice come to a stop, match the numbers on the dice to the action verbs and erogenous zone. So, if you roll a "1" first and then a "6", that means you need to kiss your man's ears for ten seconds. Once you do this, then it's your man's turn. The really great thing about the dice game is that it's incredibly easy to play and not so kinky that it will put him off. In other words, it's perfect for introducing the idea of playing games with your man in the bedroom.
3. Calendar Of Positions
Another easy to play bedroom game with your man is what I like to call the "Calendar of Positions". In this game, you will need a calendar and a list of sex positions. You can start with five or 50 positions; it's really up to you how many positions you pick. Then you just need to add a new sex position to your calendar each day.
It can be especially fun play if both you and your man share a calendar online or on your smartphone. This is due to the fact that you can add a new position to the calendar and then your man will get a nice surprise the next time he opens up the shared calendar.
While you may be very excited to start playing this game and plan out a huge amount of different positions, I always advise starting off small with just five or ten new sex positions to see if you both enjoy this game.
Firstly, apologies for the weird name. This last bedroom game, "Wrestlemania", is very similar to the Tie Down as you will need to agree on using a safe word before you start playing. And just to be on safe side, I'm going to repeat myself here. Do not attempt to play the Wrestlemania bedroom game with your man unless you have both agreed on using a safe word.
Alrighty, now onto the game! To play, you need to try and pin your man on his back (or his stomach) on the bed. Meanwhile, your man will be fighting you off while he tries to do the same to you. The catch is that he needs to keep one of his arms behind his back for the entire length of the game. This handicap will help to even things up!
Then, proceed to wrestle and struggle with your man for a minute or two. All the tossing, grabbing, struggling, and straining is the perfect way to start foreplay and sex with him. The trick to making Wrestlemania fun and exciting is not to get too serious about it or the rules. Just focus on having fun and enjoying yourself. If you do, you'll be surprised at just how hot and heavy things can get.
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