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Get Your Smooch On: 7 Ways To Get A Guy To Kiss You

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Get Your Smooch On: 7 Ways To Get A Guy To Kiss You [EXPERT]
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Want him to kiss you? Here's how to get him to go for it.

So, you've been going out for a while now. You're really feeling this guy and you can tell there's a mutual attraction. The vibes ... my God, the vibes. He drops you off at your door, smiles that little smile, says he had a great time and leaves. No kiss. Ugh!

Is it your breath? Do you have a cold sore? Well ... why won't he kiss you?

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It all depends upon the makeup of your guy. Some men are shy, awkward little devils. They can be so shy, in fact, that they have to be lured in to kissing you, while others are macho and bold and will kiss you on the first date. Should You Kiss On A First Date?

You could have a shy soul who wants to kiss you, but is awkward in the skills department. Not to worry, there are always ways to get a guy to kiss you. But before we begin, make sure your lips are kissable. There is nothing as uninviting as cracked, crusty lips. And make certain you're not wearing bright red lipstick. While it may be fashion-forward, he doesn't necessarily want to drown his lips in it.

So, here we go. Find out how to get a guy to kiss you using the following methods:

1. Touch him throughout your conversation. Don't place your hand on his knee and start rubbing it. That is so obvious. But, do touch him ever so slightly now and then on his arm or touch his hands from time to time. Create a warm, cozy intimate atmosphere for the two of you.

2. Lean in and smile. But, of course, not justany kind of smile. We're talking about a "come hither" smile; the kind that invites a man in with your mouth and eyes in synchronicity. While your mouth curls ever so slightly, your eyes speak volumes like, "I want to feel those soft, puffy little pillows on mine." Sounds corny, I know ... but it works. 5 Reasons Kissing Is Good For You

3. Hold your head to the side in rapt attention and stare straight at his lips. Then, go back to his eyes. Don't go overboard on this, like some desperate lech. Just do it naturally. Unless this guy is an intergalactic space alien, he'll know what you're doing and why.

4. Drop hints. Those awkward, geeky types are sometimes clueless. It's sad, but true, given the fact that most of the guys we see in the media are these cool, masculine studs who know how to romance a woman like crazy. That's the media, and unfortunately, most guys just aren't like that and can sometimes feel rather inadequate when it comes to the romantic side of a relationship.

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