It's definitely hot in here.
No matter how satisfied you are with your romantic life, it doesn’t mean that you don’t have romantic fantasies of the hot romance you could have.
Do you love romance novels or are Jane Austin movies more your thing? We all love romance and, for many of us, our everyday lives are somewhat lacking in it. It’s not that we don’t love our lives, but if you’ve been with someone for a while and you’re comfortable, the romance part of your relationship tends to be set to the side. You don't have to be female to have romantic fantasies either.
We have problems, issues, and kids that we must handle and things that are more important than romance, but that doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy a red-hot romance vicariously or in our imaginations.
Even when you’re just starting a relationship or have the most romantic partner in the world, it doesn’t mean that you can’t dream of another romance. You can supplement your real life with romantic fantasies; it might even help you to be able to express to your partner what you want and may not be getting. You may be surprised at how romantic some men are and how they're just as into doing romantic things as you are.
It’s not a good idea to risk a solid, healthy relationship with an affair (unless you have an agreement with your partner), but a fantasy can give you some of the excitement and feelings without putting your relationship in jeopardy.
You might want to have sex with a hot guy with no personality or smarts, but would you want to have a long-term relationship with them? Probably not, but if you imagined it with attention to detail, you’d get the eroticism of the encounter without the repercussions. For many men, a erotic fantasy is helpful when trying to keep the spark alive in their relationship.
We all have different ideas on what we’d like as far as a hot romance goes; if we didn’t, there wouldn’t be hundreds of different genres in the romance novel world. Here's his secret romantic fantasy, based on his zodiac sign.
Is he a big fan of 50 Shades of Grey? He may identify with being a strong successful businessman or maybe he isn't like that at all, except in his fantasy world. Maybe the bondage and domination aspects are what he gravitates to. If you're willing to experiment, you may be able to bring some of his secret fantasies to life.
All he needs for a hot fantasy is a hotel room, unlimited room service with the finest of wines and gourmet foods, and a lover who indulges his every desire. He'd also like there to be a beautiful view that he could gaze upon while standing on the balcony drinking champagne, while getting a full body massage.
His idea of a truly hot romantic partner is someone who is just like him. He wants them to know what he wants without him even saying it. They think he's a genius and they completely understand him. He imagines meeting them discreetly every few months and having sex without limitations.
His fantasy person is a famous rock star or artist. He imagines getting special treatment at the concert or them surprising him with a work of art inspired that he inspired. When they sing, they look directly at him and everyone around him is jealous; he can see it in their faces how they envy him. Afterward, he writes a tell-all book about his experiences and buys a fabulous home in Malibu with the money.
He dreams of having a sugar mama: someone who would pay all his bills and lavish him with expensive gifts. Since they're extremely wealthy, he wouldn't have to work and could have his sexual needs satisfied at a moment's notice. This extremely wealthy woman would have the means to back every one of his projects and ambitions. This woman is his sponsor, his angel, and his patron of the arts.
He fantasizes about someone who would encourage him to lose control and with whom he could break every inhibition he has. In real life, he tends to be careful and pays strict attention to rules and details, but in his fantasy life, he indulges his appetites and does whatever he wants without restriction.
He dreams of being with someone so beautiful it hurts. In his fantasy, he doesn't care if their personality sucks, he just wants someone who aesthetically pleases him. He'd never go for someone in real life based on their looks, but in fantasy land, he's more than okay with it.
He wants someone who is as passionate as he is and someone with power. Okay, maybe someone from a different time like a Queen or an Empress; someone with enough confidence and supreme power who would stand up to him and possesses him.
His fantasy romantic partner would be someone who enjoys the finer things in life and loves to go places. This person would never have routine sex, they'd experiment and have sex in all different locations like in an airplane bathroom or in a hut in Thailand.
He fantasizes about someone who is really easy-going and chill. He doesn't want someone who is a worrier like him and overly responsible. He fantasizes about someone a lot younger than him (but not in a gross, or illegal way) who will remind him of how it was when he was young and foolish.
He fantasizes about having an arrangement with someone where they could meet periodically for romance and sex but know very little about each other. The two of them would share a private world which would only be about satisfaction and erotic pleasure, not the mundane tasks of life. A relationship without emotional ties is exactly what he imagines he wants.
He dreams about being involved with someone who is gifted at the art of romance and love — someone who would court him in an old-fashioned way. He's very masculine but he still loves flowers, gifts, poetry, and luscious desserts. His fantasy lover would indulge his every desire and would inspire him to create.