Find out what he'll do.
We’ve all been screwed over at one time or another. It may have been someone at your job who threw you under the bus or maybe it was a loved one who betrayed you. Whatever happened, it probably hurt.
It’s never a good thing when someone you trust and/or care about does something that hurts you. You want to be open and honest but it’s challenging to do that and still have a guard up against possible pain and betrayal.
When someone unexpectedly screws you over and breaks your heart, it can take a long time to recover from it and most of the time the relationship is damaged beyond repair, even if the other person believes that they had a good reason for doing so. You have to wonder if they really had to do what they did and if there wasn’t an alternative that wouldn’t have been quite as painful.
Many times when someone screws you over, they’re not considering you or your feelings at all. It may be an easy way to get out of a situation and is an entirely selfish one at that.
Usually, the person who screws you over is someone that you have very loose ties with like a hookup or somebody that isn’t very invested in you or the relationship that you have with them. You know there are certain people that you just can’t expect much from, but that doesn’t always stop you from letting your guard down and wishing that they’ll surprise you and turn out to be OK.
The worst is when someone screws us over and we forgive them and reason away any reservations we have about them, only to have them screw us over again! That’s when it goes from being a mistake in judgment to just plain stupidity. Here's why he broke your heart and how he’ll screw you over, according to his zodiac sign.
You and he will do something risky and possibly illegal, but he'll leave you holding the bag. Perhaps he'll talk you into renting a car to take a drive up the coast; you'll get in a minor fender bender but he will leave it to you and your insurance to pay the damages. He promised he'd pay you back, but don't count on it... or ever seeing him again.
This guy is great about coming over to Netflix and chill, but when it comes to actually going out in public, he'll have a million excuses of why he can't. He's using you and has no intention of having any kind of relationship with you.
You thought you found the perfect guy to go with you to all your social events, but it turns out he's just using you to further his own career. In fact, once you get to the party, you can't even find him for the rest of the evening. To make matters worse, the next day you find out he was talking smack about you to anyone who would listen.
This guy cares deeply... well, he cares about himself and all he does is talk non-stop about his emotions and how he's feeling. When you try to get a word in, he makes fun of you and calls you a Debbie Downer.
You start to date this guy who you think is amazing, but it turns out he's constantly cheating on you. He may say that he wants something real with you, but what he really wants is to be able to screw you from time to time when he's in the mood.
You think you've found the one, but whenever you ask this guy to hang out he's already booked; when he's not, he stands you up. He's clearly benching you and is too much of a jerk to be honest with you.
First, he'll pressure you to make a decision, and then he'll use his influence so that you make the wrong decision. It will be something that will affect your credit or your job — whatever it is, there will be negative consequences to that decision.
He'll tell you everything he thinks you want to hear and it will be all lies. You'll want to believe him but your bullsh*t meter will be going off the charts and you'll instinctively know that nothing he says is true.
The two of you will plan incredible trips together, and you'll go ahead and pay for the flights and make the hotel reservations, but he'll bail at the last moment, leaving you with non-refundable travel arrangements. Well, maybe your mom can go with you on that trip to Greece?
This guy will con you in a real estate scam or something equally as damaging to your financial stability and credit rating.
You will get involved with someone who will try to isolate you and separate you from your friends and family. When he's done, you'll be alone and devastated.
This guy has big dreams and you love a good dreamer, so when he convinces you to invest in his latest scheme, you do. Unfortunately, as he explains to you, sometimes these things don't work out and you lose your entire investment.