Your ex still misses this about you.
When a relationship is over, it’s a normal response to want to be remembered and thought of by your ex. It’s insulting when no time passes between your breakup and when they’re with someone new.
One likes to think that their ex has some regrets in breaking up with you and that somewhere inside them they wish that you were still in their life. We want to make an impact on other people’s lives, and sometimes it doesn’t even matter if it was a positive or a negative one.
It seems to me that women hang onto their past loves a lot longer than men do. I like to stay friends with some of my exes and the ones that I’m not friends with, I’m up-to-date on their lives from social media.
However, my boyfriend has no idea what’s going on with any of his exes — and what’s worse is that he’s not that interested in finding out. If you were in a relationship with someone who helped shaped you into the person you are today, how could you not care about what was happening in their lives?
My boyfriend doesn’t wish them ill, he’s just entirely indifferent about his exes. I can only hope that my exes remember me and think about me from time to time. I like to think that I made a lifetime impression.
I wonder if the partners of my exes can make them laugh the way that I did or if they cook as well as me? And I wonder if there is one thing above all else that my exes miss about having me in their lives.
Your ex misses how you made everything more fun and exciting. In fact, no matter how happy they are, they secretly fear that their life is a bit boring without you being around. Your ex looks at your social media, and everything that you share looks fantastic. He experiences a profound FOMO for everything.
Your ex misses how safe, secure, and truly loved you made him feel. You embraced him in a warm cocoon of affection and made sure that he felt happy and contented. You always had his back and he misses how you were always his advocate.
Your ex misses your unique outlook on life. You made them see ordinary things in new ways and encouraged them to think outside the box. They taught you how to see things with a new perspective and gave you the ability to understand and appreciate other people's opinions.
Your ex misses the way you loved him so fully and completely. Yes, it sounds like a country song but you know it's the truth. No one loves like a Cancer as they feel the strongest emotions of any of the signs and love with every fiber of their being. When they're not feeling well, they'll miss you even more because you took such good care of them and nurtured them back to health.
Your ex will always miss how much importance you put on their opinions and how you were always making sure they were doing well and were happy. You made them feel as if they were worthy and that what they thought mattered — not just to them but to the world.
Your ex will always miss the way you took their life and made it 10 times better. You made order out of chaos. But you didn't just fix the physical day-to-day chores — you brought out the best in them and made them believe that they could do anything. You gave your ex Grade A support that made things run smoothly and, in addition, gave them the confidence to handle any problem that could come up.
Your ex misses the way that you made them feel at peace and how being with you taught them the power of having great social skills. They'll long for that feeling of being a part of the coolest couple at the party and how you never judged them or made them feel less than.
Your ex will miss the passion in which you live your life. There's nothing half-assed about the way you do things; you throw yourself into most anything with all your body and soul. Your ex will miss your voracious sexual appetites and how you taught them a few things. It wasn't always easy being with you but your ex never felt more alive.
You ex often remembers how you made them laugh until they couldn't take it anymore. You made everything feel joyous and like a celebration. You were so adept at encouraging them to try new things, visit unfamiliar places and to speak to strangers, it's as if you opened up the world to them.
Your ex regrets that they let you get away as you are everything that anyone could wish for in a life partner. You're stable, responsible, secure, and everyone else seems like a crybaby when compared to you. You showed them that with hard work anything is possible and that all goals are achievable.
Your ex will always miss how you made them appreciate who they were and encouraged them to be themselves, even if others would find them strange. You helped your ex to feel comfortable in his own skin and to express his true self no matter if others would judge him.
Your ex misses the vibrant way you see life and how you made them see things in more creative and interesting ways. Your ex knows that they'll never find anyone as selfless and giving as you, and when they feel like screaming because their life seems so monotonous and mundane, they miss you even more.