What is it about you that attracts the same type of guy?
Have you found that no matter how much you try, you seem to attract the same type of guy repeatedly? Perhaps you feel that you constantly seem to date guys with a lot of baggage, so you make a conscious effort to date someone who seems to have his sh*t together, but as you get to know him you realize that, on the surface, he may be at the top of his game but underneath he’s dealing with all kinds of past drama and hurt.
The circumstances may be unique for each individual but the characteristics of each guy are scarily similar. You swear you’ll break the pattern and date up or date differently, but somehow it always turns out to be the same type of guy. Is it you or something that your subconscious is trying to tell you?
What is it about this type that is drawing you to them? Is there some cosmic lesson you’re supposed to learn? And if so, haven’t you learned by now? Isn’t it time for a different sort of guy? What is it about you that attracts the same kind of guy?
If all you seem to date are hot guys but what you really want is a guy who is both smart and sexy, what do you do to change who you attract? You could be more responsive to a hot guy because that’s the kind of guy you’re used to, and you know how to handle them and they can sense it, but maybe super-intelligent guys intimidate you a little?
The thing about dating is that it allows you to get to know a variety of people so you can discover what it is that you’re looking for in a partner. You don’t want to limit your options, you want to expand them.
Aries tend to attract guys who like to rely on you to decide what fun thing you're going to do or what kind of adventure you'll go on. It's not that they're indecisive or lazy, they just know that your ideas are superior. However, sometimes you'd like to be with somebody who takes more responsibility for your dates or social activities.
The guys that flock to you are the ones who need a little loving, Taurus style. They're not mama's boys, they just crave somebody who'll be their advocate and will shower them with love and affection. Admit it, boo, you make people feel loved the moment they walk through your door.
Oh, Gemini, you've certainly had your share of guys who crave stimulation and excitement. They know you'll supply them with that undefinable spark and lust for life. They need you to energize their lives.
Cancer often attracts guys who are emotional like you but also very manipulative. They will do what they can to get you to care for them, even if that means using your empathy and sensitivity to their own advantage.
Leo, you're a star who attracts guys that are drawn by your dazzling personality. If adults had personality contests, you'd definitely win. The guys you attract just want some of that star power to shine on them.
Virgo tends to attract guys who are seeking order in a chaotic world. They're usually somewhat broken and in need of a safe place which you can provide.
Libra, you tend to attract guys who want someone who can be their everything, and that's you. You're equally social, loving, and intelligent and you make everyone's life better for being in it.
Scorpios attract guys who are missing passion from their lives because no one can provide more passion than you. Everything you do is with passion and a strong intent, and it can be slightly dangerous but always exciting.
The guys Sagittarius attracts are bored with their lives and know that you'll show them things they've never seen, tastes they've never tried, places they wouldn't think to visit, and meet random but fascinating people. You offer the world to people you're involved with. Who wouldn't want that?
Capricorn is interested in men who are missing stability and financial security from their lives. They're on shaky ground and they need you to make them feel as if they're safe.
You attract guys who want to be accepted for their quirky and unusual selves. They know Aquarius won't judge them and that you appreciate them for their uniqueness and individuality.
You attract men who have a creative side to them that, for whatever reason, they've been too nervous to express. Pisces help people reveal their inner artist and to find joy in the creative process.