You aren't easily forgotten.
We all hope that we’ve made impression on the people whose lives we’ve touched, especially our exes. I’d like to think that from time to time they think of me and look back on our time together without much negativity. Though, who am I kidding? I’ve found that once a relationship is over, you’re mostly forgotten by an ex.
I like to imagine that my exes have moments of horror when they think about how they may have wronged me and how lucky they were to have me in their lives. I mean, if you go through a cycle of a relationship from that first spark of interest, to the actual meat of the relationship, and finally to the sad/angry/indifferent ending, this was all time you experienced together.
No matter how bad or good a relationship is, it changes people — sometimes in small ways and other times in huge, momentous ways. I am who I am not just because of my family or where I grew up, but because of the people I’ve encountered in my life.
I dated a man from Pakistan and I know I wouldn’t have the appreciation for his culture and religion that I have now if it weren’t for him. I wonder sometimes if he has a greater understanding of the American culture and Indian films because of me. All of us need to know that our time on earth made a difference to people and that we gave as much as we got.
Do I sometimes wish that one (or more) of my exes still had feelings for me? I’d be a liar if I said I didn’t. It’s an ego boost to know that you’re so amazing that you’re not easily forgotten. There are also those times when you want your ex to still love you, especially if you want to get back together with them.
Here's why he won’t get over you easily, according to his zodiac sign.
No one has ever accused you of being a couch potato and that's one of the reasons your ex is having such a difficult time getting over you. You were always up for anything and had the best ideas for spontaneous, fun things to do. Being with you made him feel alive and exciting, and without you he's worried that he'll never meet anyone as amazing and adventurous as you.
You made him feel happy and comfortable, and you made every place feel like home. He already misses your incredible support, the gourmet meals you made for him, and how you put love notes in unexpected places. You gave him a safe place in a sometimes dangerous world.
How will he ever find anyone as socially adept or as great a conversationalist as you? Your passion for life is intoxicating and he's doubtful that anyone will make him laugh or surprise him with their intelligence the way that you did.
You loved him with every ounce of your being and he doesn't think he'll ever find that kind of unconditional love again. He knew you were always there loving him and that gave him a quiet strength to take chances and to pursue goals he might not have gone after. You definitely had his back and he knew it.
You need a partner who can match you in confidence, looks, and smarts, and that was you. You dazzled him with your intelligence, self-assurance, and ability to outshine everyone in the room without pulling focus from him.
The curse of the Virgo individual is that they seek perfection, in themselves and in others. He knows you were as close to perfection as he'll ever get and even your flaws were beautiful. He knows he lost you out of his own stupidity and he goes over your relationship constantly in his mind. When he sees you in public or on social media, he feels like he's being stabbed in the heart.
He won't forget you easily because you completed him. When he was upset, you calmed him down; when he wanted to be loved you were there loving him; when he just needed to see the funny side of life, you made him laugh hysterically. You didn't pick fights just to argue and you never made him feel as if he was 100 percent understood. You were a rare gift, indeed.
A Scorpio's passion is intense and not everyone can handle it, but you could. When his emotions got the best of him, you could calm him down. With your deeply sexual nature you were able to satisfy both his desires and your own. When you fought, it was high drama but the energy was like an electric current between the two of you.
You were so accepting of him that he doesn't know if he'll ever find that kind of acceptance again. He didn't have to be someone he wasn't with you, and he knew that you weren't with him because you needed something from him; you were with him because you wanted to be there.
He knows that you encouraged him to be the best human he could be — not just the most successful, but a person who helped others and strove to better himself. You made him see the importance of being well-rounded, to enjoy art as well as commerce, and you made him take breaks from his constant working.
It's going to take him a long, long time to find anybody who can challenge his intellect the way that you did. It's as if you seduced his brain first. He enjoyed feeling intellectually stimulated by you and he knows the chances of finding anyone half as interesting as you aren't very good.
He loved the way you were purely yourself and he'll miss your off-kilter way of looking at the world. Your ease with who you are made him feel comfortable, creative, and gave him the ability to see beauty in unexpected places and in surprising ways.