For the Ladies: How to Give a Good Hand Job

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For the Ladies: How to Give a Good Hand Job


 Below is some advice (in bold) taken from the book The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D., followed by me adding my own thoughts in.  (By the way, guys, if you really want your partner to know this stuff, you could show her this blog OR, sneakily, buy her the book and hope that she reads Chapter 8. But I recommend the direct approach.)<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />

 

You will need a lubricant that is specifically designed by the manufacturer for use in sexual contact.  If not, you could cause discomfort or worse.

 



1.  Preferably, start with the lubricant before your partner is fully erect, if possible.  Put a dollop of the lubricant the size of a fifty cent piece in the palm of your hand and spread it luxuriously on his penis with your other hand.  Use finesse.  I recommend also being creative and having fun.  The more fun you’re having, the more fun he’ll be having.

 

2.  When you give your man a hand job, think about touching him in a way that will make YOUR HANDS feel good.  This will cause you to set aside all your anxiety regarding: am I doing it right? etc.  I know this may sound odd, but try it.

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