Want A Hotter Sex Life? The #1 Thing To Know About Female Orgasms

Admit it. As a woman, there's nothing more frustrating than trying to get it on with your man, only for him to resort to watching porn just to get in the mood. Not only is it a total blow to your ego (making your building orgasm disappear), it also makes you feel intimidated, humiliated, and scared for your sex life and overall relationship.

Having to constantly beat down the questions "If he really was as satisfied with our sex life as he says he is, why does he watch porn so often?" and "What does he get out of watching it?" can get super annoying after awhile.

Let's be honest. Does he really need to watch sexy films of other women just to get in the mood?

We get it. It's hard to not be a little jealous when he relies on porn more often than not. But that doesn't mean that he's not interested in you. In fact, according to  Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, that couldn't be further from the truth!

He gets to the bottom of why guys watch porn even if they're happy with the intimacy in their relationship. 

What he found will surprise you.

When one of our readers mentioned that her boyfriend seems to enjoy porn more than he enjoys sex with her, Dr. Gray hits the nail on the mark by saying that this has nothing to do with her and is more so related to how frequent her orgasm is.

Think about it for a second. If your man notices just how into foreplay you are, he'll do anything to keep the momentum going, even if this means calling in some resources (cough cough). Seeing you excited completely turns him on, especially knowing the fact that he's the reason for it.

So instead of letting those doubts play on heavy rotation in your mind, do something about it! There are ways for you to enjoy the pay off—together. You may have to remind him that the female orgasm is the key to having the best sex of your life.

Trust us, he'll thank you for it.

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