The Insider's Guide To Deep Throating (Yes, ANYONE Can Do It!)

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He's going to LOVE this. Trust me.

I hope you’re excited … because you’re about to learn how to blow your man’s mind in a way less than 1 in 100 women can. Right now, you’re going to learn the real secret to being able to deep throat (during oral sex, of course) virtually ANY guy!

We all know most men fantasize about this, however men rarely (if ever) get to experience it. Why? It’s not that most women are physically unable to do it, on the contrary.

Any woman can learn to deep throat.

One reason most women don’t try is because they have all the wrong information. For example, a lot of "advice" online suggests that you take a deep breath in before trying to deep throat. This couldn’t be further from the truth (as you’ll see later on in this article).

The other reason most women haven't dared is because many won’t put in the time and effort required to practice and develop this skill. As a bi-sexual man who’s probably given and received more blow jobs than a lot of gay porn stars, I can teach you all the tricks and techniques to giving your guy the best blow jobs — but unless you do what I say, it won’t do you any good.

Before you go "down town" and go crazy, follow these two initial steps to prepare for the real thing:

1. Desensitize your gag-reflex.

Guys who are not circumcised have much more sensitive "heads" then men who are. Why? Because that throbbing little knob of joy hasn’t been desensitized from a lifetime of rubbing against his pants. It stays safe from stimulation inside its protective cocoon most of the time, so when it does get some direct attention, it goes bonkers!

The same thing is true for your gag reflex.

If you never took the time to consciously stimulate and desensitize your gag reflex, it will stay sensitive and react very quickly the moment you try to take much of your guy in.

To perfect this method, here's a trick learned from a professional sword swallower (it TOTALLY works!):

Every day when you brush your teeth, brush your tongue as well. Brush back as far as you can without gagging. 

Notice the emphasis on the words "without gagging". You don’t want to go so far back that you do gag — you want to go just far enough until you feel like you’re about to. Right on the edge of your pre-gagging limit.

Do this every time you brush and within just a few days you’ll notice a huge difference in how far back you can go. You also get the added benefits of having fresher breath and a sexier looking tongue!

2. Practice makes perfect.

Now that you’ve seen just how easy it is to tame your gag reflex with nothing more than a toothbrush. It’s time to move onto to something with a little more meat on it and get you completely past the gag reflex.

Some suggest practicing on a banana or cucumber. The problem with this is that when they get wet, they get soggy, lose their firmness and can end up coming apart inside your mouth.

Instead, if you don’t have a live and willing test subject to practice on, I recommend investing a few bucks in a jelly or silicone dildo. Make sure to get one that’s the size of your partner (or ideal recipient).

By the way, once you reach your goal depth, don’t make it obvious that you could take much more of him in. Part of what makes deep throating so arousing for your guy is the ego boost you give him from knowing he’s just a wee bit too big to easily fit in your mouth. Even if he’s only average in size, it’ll still arouse the fantasy.

So how do you get past the gag reflex and actually get the job done? First, don’t panic on the penis.


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A common mistake a lot of women make when trying to deep throat is that they panic — they start feeling the gag-reflex kick in and think "there’s no way I can do this". Just remember that you’re overcoming a natural reflex that’s caused by your brain trying to protect you.

Then, remember to breathe.


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Get comfortable and retrain your brain to associate calm and peaceful feelings to having him deeper in your mouth. This might sound weird if you’ve never done it yet, but successful deep throating is very much a meditative experience. Once you can comfortably "hold him" in your mouth without panicking, take him in a little further and repeat.

Get used to comfortably and calmly having him in your mouth, deeper and deeper.

Keep your tongue flat and avoid anything too flashy.


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The natural instinct when trying to deep throat is for the back of your tongue to curl or ball up. You need to practice keeping your tongue flat and "resting" in the bottom of your throat.

Also make a conscious effort to relax your tongue when you’re practicing on your test subject (real or not).

Remember, you're going to gag — but don't stop there.

When you’re practicing and still learning how to deep throat, you’re going to gag. It’s inevitable.

The trick is to never end a practice session on a gag. If you keep on practicing and make sure to finish on a positive note, your brain will associate a positive memory to deep throating.

Lastly, get past "the wall".


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Once you’ve tamed and gotten past your gag reflex, you’ll feel as though you’re "hitting a wall" inside your throat. Congratulations! You’ve made it to the final step!

There are 2 parts to this final maneuver: 

1. Exhale.

The way to breathe during a deep throat is to exhale through your nose while going down on him, and calmly hold your breath as you push past "the wall" welcoming him into your throat. When you come back up and off him, breathe in and inhale through the sides of your mouth.

2. Open your throat.

With your lungs empty and the head of him knocking at "the wall", open up your throat to let him in. Place your hand around your neck and yawn. For a split second, right before you reach the peak of your yawn — you’ll feel your throat open and get wider right where your thumb and index finger meet.

THIS is how you open your throat and make it possible to push (or pull) him past the wall.

Congrats! You just gave your man one of the ultimate fantasies most women simply cannot!

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