A Sex Pro's Guide To The 17 Sexiest Songs (Wink-Wink)

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Looking for some great songs to make love to? This list will keep things intense.

While you and your man probably have no problem creating your own noise in the bedroom, adding music to the mix can give your lovemaking session a whole new sexy vibe.

Sure, you don't need music to heat things up, but it never hurts to add new elements to keep things interesting and enjoyable. (Also, if you're looking for some powerful sex tips to keep things hot, then maybe you will want to try out these ones.)

Incorporating songs to make love to is especially nice if you tend to fall into the same rhythm and movements each time. Choosing the right song can encourage to slow things down, or speed things up, as your body moves to the beat.

As the beats encourage you to explore different sensations, the lusty, sexual lyrics can set a steamy mood. To start experiencing the pleasure and satisfaction music can bring to the bedroom, try creating a new playlist with these songs to make love to.

1. "Let's Get It On" by Marvin Gaye:

This classic song to make love to deserves a spot on every foreplay playlist. The sexy guitar sounds get the hips swaying and the tempo and smooth feel are perfect for a bit of sensual dancing. Plus, the lyrics leave little doubt about what's on your mind.

2. "I Touch Myself" by Divinyls:

It's certainly not subtle, but this early 90s pop hit is fun and funky. Since many men find seeing a woman give herself pleasure extremely arousing, bringing a little solo-play into the bedroom can really heat things up.

3. "Have Love, Will Travel" by The Sonics:

A strong beat sets a powerful mood for a sweaty love-making session. The sax solo, rough vocals and growling are urgent and primal. As far as songs to make love to go, this one is pretty hot.

4. "Shut It Down" by Drake:

The slow, steady rhythm with brassy beats is just right for savoring a few minutes of steamy foreplay. Plus, at nearly seven minutes long, you'll have enough time to get things going before a track change interrupts the moment.

5. "Naughty Girl" by Beyonce:

The Middle Eastern vibe of this track makes it impossible to sit still. The slow grind and strong beats are just right for swiveling your hips. Plus, the sensuous sounds set a sexy stage.

6. "Do Right Woman, Do Right Man" by Aretha Franklin:

When you want to take things slow but steady, and enjoy lots of touch and eye contact, this ballad sets the mood. Both the lyrics and the instrumentals are intense and powerful, in a slow-burn way.

7. "Wicked Game" by Chris Isaak:

This hypnotizing tune may just lull you into a lovemaking trance. The soft, husky vocals pair with velvety guitar sounds at the perfect pace for a lingering romp.

8. "Slow Dancing In A Burning Room" by John Mayer:

A sultry voice and a steady beat make this a must-have have song for lovemaking. From slow dancing, as the title suggests, to sweet caresses and serious action, there’s no situation this song isn't right for.

9. "Black Magic Woman" by Carlos Santana:

The Latin rhythm of this tune is hot and lusty. There are just enough powerful vocals, but the instrumentals really take center stage. And, with over five minutes of music, you have time to get your own groove going.

10. "Sex Therapy" by Robin Thicke:

As if the pulsating rhythm wasn't enough, the lyrics also encourage selflessness in the bedroom. With the chorus suggesting that you scream and yell as loud as you want to, feel free to release your pleasure in whatever noise you need.

11. "Afternoon Delight" by Starland Vocal Band:

You might remember this oldie from the movie Anchorman. Far from a cheesy folk song, it has a groovy sound that will keep you moving. Plus, it's all about midday sex, which is always a good idea.

12. "Little Red Corvette" by Prince:

No lovemaking playlist would be complete without at least one Price song. You could go with "Kiss" or "I Wanna Be Your Lover," but this one has the ultimate combination of his sexy voice with enough tempo changes to keep things interesting.

13. "Pour Some Sugar On Me" by Def Leppard:

Perhaps the ultimate lap dance song, this rock favorite has fun lyrics and a fast-paced tempo. One thing is for sure, there's no bedroom boredom when this tune is on.

14. "Drunk In Love" by Beyonce and Jay-Z:

It's no surprise that music's hottest couple put out one of the best songs to make love to. Frisky and fresh, this song makes everyone feel a bit wild and lusty.

15. "I Need Love" by LL Cool J:

With hip-hop vocals over slow-paced beats, rap's biggest ladies man delivers one of the best songs to make love to. This rap ballad is surprisingly tender and sweet

16. "Pony" by Ginuwine:

Seductive and sweet is wonderful, but sometimes you just need to pump and grind. This is the song for that. Not only do the lyrics encourage getting dirty, the background music sets a pace that doesn't hold back.

17. "Would You Mind" by Janet Jackson:

This spine-tingling track is all about slowly enjoying and lingering in every part of sex. With perhaps the most sensual lyrics on this list, Janet suggestions for touching, tasting, teasing and sucking might just help you voice what you want.

When things start heating up, don't hit play on whatever song you were listening to at the gym or in your car. The songs you make love to can make all the difference in how satisfying the experience is.

The wrong tune can throw everything off, but the right one can help you move together towards your mutual pleasure. 

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