Learning how to make yourself squirt and ejaculate can be incredibly pleasurable, especially if you do it with someone you care about. But most women struggle when learning the ancient art of female ejaculation and never quite figure out how to do it properly. This guide will show you what you need to do erupt like a fountain.
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Unlike learning a new sexual position, where you simply need to imitate a picture or diagram you found online or in a book, learning to squirt takes more work than this. Making yourself squirt is a half-mental, half-physical phenomenon. You won't magically be able to squirt by only focusing on the technique I'm about to show you. You also need to learn how to properly relax and let go. Ok, let's start!
The Most Important Thing About Making Yourself Squirt
The first thing is understanding exactly what squirting is. Many women believe that when they squirt, that they are actually releasing urine. This is possible, but it's rare. Instead, when you squirt you will be ejaculating fluid from the Skene's gland. The Skene's gland is located above the G Spot and is really close to the bladder.
As the Skene's gland is stimulated, it fills and then expels fluid (the actual squirting part). This fluid is released through the urethra. The urethra is the same tube that urine passes through. As a result, many women report that they feel like they are going to pee as they squirt. It's a totally normal feeling. But importantly, it's not pee...even if it feels like you are peeing. So the first thing to learn is that having that "I need to pee" feeling as you are about to squirt is totally normal. What is important is mentally 'releasing' and relaxing so that you allow your body to squirt.
The reason that this is the most important thing about squirting is because most women who claim that they can't squirt do so because they are simply holding themselves back, instead of just releasing and going with the flow. So if you are worried about peeing, then just try the techniques I describe in this article while you are in the shower. That way if you do somehow pee, it will be all washed down the drain anyway.
Prepare Yourself For A Flood!
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Now that I have covered the one big, massive stumbling block people encounter when learn how to squirt, it's time to get yourself ready.
A few hours before you actually start using the techniques below, make sure to have a few glasses of water so that you are properly hydrated. No need for gallons of water, but half a liter to a full liter of water is perfect. Then right before you lie down or jump in the shower to start trying to make yourself squirt, make sure to empty your bladder.