How To Make A Guy Want You: 5 Weird, Clever Tips


How To Make A Guy Want You: 5 Weird, Clever Tips
Learn How To Make A Guy Want You By Using These 5 Clever But Weird Techniques.

Learning how to make a guy want you can be quite easy...if you follow these simple steps. You may notice that you already do some of the techniques and tactics I list below, but using just one or two is not enough. If you really want to make him want, desire, and need you, then you need to get good at doing all five.

(P.S. If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips & techniques for building sexual tension & turning him on, you’ll find them in this powerful video).


Rule #1 Have Your Own Life

Probably the most misunderstood and counterintuitive advice that I can give you is that you need to have your own life when it comes to love and dating. But, what does that even mean?

"Having your own life" means that you need to have your own interests independent of your man. These are things like hobbies, activities, and even friends that you are super into but that your man isn't necessarily as interested in.

But why is having your own life like this so important?

It's for a number of reasons...

1) You need to show your man that you really and truly do enjoy his company and presence, but at the same time you need to let him know that you don't need him. Showing your man that you don't need him will make him respect you more. Think about it...if you desperately need him and drop your life for him, then he will quickly realise that he doesn't have to work for your love, affection, and respect anymore. When this happens, he will ultimately lose respect for you.

2) Women who have their own lives are infinitely more attractive to a guy. You see, men are actually a lot like cats. When they can easily have you, then they will just as easily get bored with you (much like a cat and a dangling piece of twine). But, when they have to work hard to win you over, then they will be a lot more attracted to you.

So, when you have your own life, you will naturally be harder to hang out with and less available...perfect for making him want you a whole lot more.

By the way, if you want to learn how to give your man an incredible blowjob, then I strongly suggest you check out this blow job tutorial video. It's a little explicit, but will teach you everything you need to know.

Rule #2 Do You Love You?

I definitely don't want to get all "woo woo" or spiritual with you, but you really do have to ask yourself this: "Do I love myself?"

When you think about it, how can a guy love and want you if you don't even love and want yourself? If you do, then great! But if you are not yet totally in love with yourself, then don't fret. There are plenty of ways to remedy it.

  • If you feel like you are not in shape, then you can always join a gym and start working out more.
  • If you aren't feeling that confident with your fashion sense, then get in touch with a friend who keeps up with trends and ask them for some advice or even to go shopping with you.
  • The same goes for your confidence with talking to guys. The only way to get more confident is to practice more and more with male friends and co-workers.

More advice on how to get a boyfriend from YourTango:

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

Sean Jameson


Learn more by visiting the Bad Girl's Bible site where you will get all my best sex tips and advice.

Location: Dublin, DB, Ireland
Credentials: Other
Other Articles/News by Sean Jameson:

17 Incredibly Cute Things To Say To Your Boyfriend


You probably tell your boyfriend daily that you love him and care about him. But, even though he loves hearing it, it can get a bit stale after awhile. Sometimes finding a cute, unexpected or flirty way to express your feelings will catch his attention in a way that a standard phrase just can’t. From sassy to suggestive, these cute things to say to your ... Read more

17 Intense Songs To Make Love To


While you and your man probably have no problem creating your own noise in the bedroom, adding music to the mix can give your lovemaking session a whole new vibe. Sure, you don’t need music to heat things up, but it never hurts to add new elements to keep things interesting and enjoyable. Also, if you're looking for some powerful sex tips to keep ... Read more

Incredible 1 Year Anniversary Ideas


As the first anniversary of your relationship approaches, it’s time to find the perfect gift for your sweetie. But, you can’t pop into the mall and pick up the first boring shirt and cliché card that catches your eye. A significant anniversary calls for a thoughtful gift that will resonate with your man. It should be something that shows him ... Read more

See More

Most Popular
Latest Expert Videos