6 Bad Girl Sex Tips You Should Live By

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6 Bad Girl Sex Tips You Should Live By
Start having more fun and improve your sex life with these naughty tips.

Only 10 years ago, if you wanted to learn how to be a bad girl, everyone you knew would judge the heck out of you. Thankfully this dark age attitude is finally changing. So if you want to be a bit naughty these day, then you just need to follow these 6 simple rules. (If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips and techniques for building sexual tension and turning him on, you’ll find them in this powerful video).

You'll notice that I saved the best tips for the end, where I go into specific detail on how to please a guy with oral sex and dirty talk.

1. You Have A Healthy Attitude About Sex
Without a doubt, the most important aspect of learning how to be a bad girl is that you have to have a healthy attitude about sex. Those who are truly naughty don't hate sex, don't repress their feelings about sex and you certainly don't judge others for their sexual choices and desires. As a result of having a healthy, open attitude about sex, you will quickly find that you want explore new aspects of your sexuality, whether that's with new people, new sexual positions or techniques or even just new scenarios and fantasies. The really cool thing about having a healthy attitude towards sex is that you'll surprise yourself with what you try and what you enjoy in bed.

2. You Take Precautions
I know you are probably eager to get to the juicy stuff and I will get to it in just a minute, but first I want to talk to you about being safe and taking precautions. I know that sometimes you may not want to feel like you are planning sex and that it just happened. I get it. But if you truly have a healthy attitude towards sex and are open about it, then you know that it's often likely to happen when you don't exactly expect it. This is why you should always carry condoms with you when going out with friends or to meet a guy. On top of this, if you have multiple sexual partners, then you need to get tested regularly. Even if you always use condoms. Okay, boring part over.

3. You Try New Things
The most important part about learning how to be dirtier is trying new things. Something that I find kind of amusing is that many often interpret "trying new things" as simply sleeping with lots of different guys. It certainly can, but it doesn't have to. Instead you can learn to be a bad girl just for one guy by learning to try new things with only him. So, what kinds of new things should you be trying with your guy? Well if you're new to this, then I always advise starting off with some new sex positions. New sex positions won't make for a crazy revolution in your sex life, but they are the perfect start and will help a ton for getting comfortable with your new sexy attitude.

4. You Know How To Give Great Oral Sex
Once you are comfortable with trying some new sexual positions with your man, then it's time to take your sluttiness to a new level. It's time to learn how to give him a great blow job. While you will obviously learn my best oral sex techniques from this tutorial video, let me give you a quick start guide right now.

  • Excited Enthusiasm: If you want to give your man some great oral sex, then you must be enthusiastic about it. So you shouldn't meekly and quietly start giving him oral sex. He needs to see the passion and fire in your eyes as you go down and go to town on him.
  • More Than In And Out: If you haven't given many blow jobs before, then you may not be totally comfortable with giving one to your man. If this is the case, then you may have defaulted to the traditional in and out motion, where you simply move your head up and down. This is absolutely fine, but please understand that there is a lot more to giving great oral sex than doing just this. You can lick, kiss, suck, blow, tease, tickle, caress and massage him using your tongue and fingers while going down on him.

5. You Talk Dirty
One of the trademarks of bad girl behavior is obviously talking dirty. You may have seen a few ridiculous porn movies where the starlet is screaming profanities at a guy to try and turn him on. This definitely works in some cases. But there is a whole lot more to talking dirty if you want to act sexy. You can be much more discreet and subtle with your dirty talk and it will still have the same effect on your man. So instead of shouting the nastiest thing you can think of at him, try whispering in his ear. Say something like, "I just want to get out of here" or "I wish there was no one else here and we could just focus on each other, if you know what I mean." Both of these dirty talking examples are super easy and not as direct at all. On top of being easy, they are also quite a bit more powerful too as they will have your man in a constant state of anticipation until you act on what you said. For more tips and examples on how to talk dirty to your man, you might want to check out this instructional video.

6. You Dress To Impress
A big part of learning how to be a bad girl is dressing sexy. You probably already have a good idea of what you should wear to be hot for your man:

  • When it comes to clothes, less is more.
  • The more skin you show, the better.
  • Heels work well.
  • You wear make up that gets attention.

The one thing I want to add to this is wearing something that your man (or men) associates with slutty behavior. Your guy may associate this with cheerleaders, strippers or cocktail waitresses. The list is endless and depends on your man's particular tastes. The important thing is to exploit it. So wear a skirt that looks like a cheerleader's skirt or clear plastic heels or a short sexy dress if you want to look like a cheerleader, stripper or cocktail waitress.

If you enjoyed learning how to be slutty for your man, but want to take things to the next level, you will find everything you need to know on the Bad Girl's Bible site. You'll find tips on better oral sex, every sex position known to man (with professional photographs), sex tips and examples on talking dirty to your man.

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