17 Dirty Talk Phrases To Build Sexual Tension

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Dirty talk isn't just for the bedroom. It's for everyday communication.
 

Having a large repertoire of dirty phrases that you can use on your man is important if want to keep things exciting in the bedroom (and outside the bedroom) as well as keeping him faithful. Below are 17 dirty talking phrases that you can use on your man right now, whether you are in bed, you are sending him a text message, you're on the phone, or you are both walking down a crowded street. 

(P.S. These are just a small section of the dirty talking phrases, tips and messages that you will find in my free newsletter).

 

But before I give you each of these phrases, there is a few crucial things that you must know about talking dirty to your man and making it work. This is simply because there is just no point in learning the words if you don't know how to use them properly. Let me explain.

How you talk dirty: When talking dirty to your man, you are going to find that you have a lot more success at turning your man on and building sexual tension if you do it confidently. So the next time you talk dirty to your man, make sure to speak slowly and clearly in a way that accentuates the meaning of the actual words. The last thing you want to do is stutter the words or say them incredibly fast or in a weird tone. My advice is to practice these dirty talking phrases a few times to yourself before you actually use them on your man.

Where you talk dirty: Where you talk dirty is just as important. When you are both in bed together, then you are going to talking dirty in a way that to enhances love making for both of you. But when you are together in a public place where nothing can happen, then you are going to be talking dirty in a way that builds sexual tension. So the things that you will be saying to your man will be quite different in each case. So now that I have talked a little bit about using dirty talk in a way that is most effective, it's time to learn some dirty talking phrases!

Dirty phrases to turn him on in bed:

  • You feel so good on top of me.
  • Just hearing you breath in my ear sends shivers down my spine.
  • I love just touching your body. It feels incredible.
  • I wish we could just stay in bed forever.
  • Just like that!
  • Faster!
  • I love being your little minx in the bedroom.
  • I want to taste you.
  • Keep doing that.
  • You're going to put me over the edge.
  • You're making me too turned on.

If you want to learn more dirty phrases like these ones, then you'll find them in this detailed video tutorial where I'll teach you what to say and why.

Dirty talking phrases to build sexual tension:

When you're not in bed, you can use dirty talk much more subtly and discreetly to build sexual tension and also keep your man thinking about you (for hours and hours) rather than just instantly turning him on like with you would using the previous dirty talk phrases. Try these examples to build sexual tension with your man:

  • I can't wait until we're alone, I've got a special surprise for you!
  • Seeing you in those jeans is making me want to jump you.
  • If we weren't out in public, I would be doing some very naughty things to you right now!
  • I wish we could just leave this party/movie theatre/concert and go somewhere private. I am just too horny!
  • Don't look at me like that, you know it turns me on.
  • You know I wore this skirt/these jeans just for you.

As you can see, the first group of dirty talk examples on the previous page were all about turning your man on in the moment so that sex is hotter, while the second group is all about building sexual tension with your man to keep him thinking about you and wondering what you have planned for him.

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