Is He Gay?

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Is He Gay?
Some signs are obvious, others not so much. Either way, getting to the truth is a win/win...really!

From the onset, I want to make one thing perfectly clear,

“Knowing for sure, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that your husband is gay is next to impossible until it’s a reality!”

 

Take me for example, and many of the married but gay” clients that I work with, until we grow the balls to say, “Frankly my dear I’m gay,” it was pretty hard for most people to see it. Of course there’s a whole subconscious layer of denial that prevails in the “gay but married to a heterosexual” world – for all concerned!

Most straight spouses, who’ve been married to someone who finally ventures out of the closet, will admit upon reflection that they had some inkling that something just didn’t fit in their relationship – no pun intended. Simply acknowledging a disconnect or a misalignment in the relationship doesn’t necessarily mean he’s gay. However, in most cases, there are signs that heed the warning that your “Mistah just might be a sistah!”

5 Signs He’s Gay or...?
(The Definitive, Un-definitive Guide To Knowing He’s Gay)

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Rick Clemons, The Gay Man's Life Coach & The Coming Out Coach

Rick is a straight-forward, compassionate, insightful, challenging, mentor, guide, and Certified Professional Coach who's been featured on The Ricki Lake Show, and is a highly sought after radio show personality, blogger, author, and faculty member of Sex Coach U. His loving, challenging, gentle, and inspiring approach ignites a fire in clients, helping them get through the darkest moments of life and come out the other side, kicking butt, and being authentically themselves.

Rick thrives, working with individuals, and those in their inner circle, as they embark on the journey out of the closet and beyond. He specializes in helping people build confidence, live their passion while loving their work, and live authentically. Authenticity isn't just a word he throws around lightly. It's the backbone of his practice and the manner in which he personnally strives to live each and every day of his own life.

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