From the onset, I want to make one thing perfectly clear,
“Knowing for sure, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that your husband is gay is next to impossible until it’s a reality!”
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Take me for example, and many of the “married but gay” clients that I work with, until we grow the balls to say, “Frankly my dear I’m gay,” it was pretty hard for most people to see it. Of course there’s a whole subconscious layer of denial that prevails in the “gay but married to a heterosexual” world – for all concerned!
Most straight spouses, who’ve been married to someone who finally ventures out of the closet, will admit upon reflection that they had some inkling that something just didn’t fit in their relationship – no pun intended. Simply acknowledging a disconnect or a misalignment in the relationship doesn’t necessarily mean he’s gay. However, in most cases, there are signs that heed the warning that your “Mistah just might be a sistah!”
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