4 Tricks To Exude Confidence and Attract More Dates


4 Tricks To Exude Confidence and Attract More Dates [EXPERT]
Discover what your body language says about you.

We all can agree that confidence is a trait that is highly attractive when looking for a mate. There is just something about confident people that puts your mind at ease and makes it easier to engage with them. Sure, they probably have some issues of their own to work out, but they don’t wear it on their sleeves. Overall, they are pretty comfortable with who they are, and it shows in everything they do.

As a dating coach, I have had the opportunity to work with some great clients. They are smart, funny and have everything in the world to offer, but you wouldn't know it by the first glance. We try not to judge a book by its cover, but sometimes it's all we have to go on.

The way that a person walks, talks and moves can speak volumes to their character and ultimately be a deciding factor in whether or not you choose to approach them. Is your body language sending the right message to your potential suitors?

Here are four easy tricks to use your body language to boost your charm factor and attract more dates.

1. Keep a smile on your face. Have you ever gone out of your way to speak with someone who frowns, scowls or consistently makes a "stink face?" Chances are the answer is no. 5 Dating Tips For Introverts

Your smile says a lot about you as a person because when a person smiles, it generally means that they are happy and confident in who they are as a person. Having an inviting smile is a powerful tool that not only lets people know that you are approachable, but it also allows you to flirt and communicate your likes and/or dislikes without saying a word.

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J. Cameron Gantt

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J. Cameron Gantt is a Certified Life Coach and Matchmaker for Insti(Gay)tor, The Exclusively Gay Matchmaking Agency. He is a featured contributor for various dating and relationship websites offering expert advice on GLBT dating and relationships.

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