Experts/Illinois (IL)/Chicago/J. Cameron Gantt

J. Cameron Gantt, Dating Coach

J. Cameron  Gantt - Dating Coach, Life Coach, Matchmaker, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Chicago, IL

Dating Coach

Contact Information

Email me
Call Me 773.242.9344
My Website

I Believe

"We all have the ability to create our own successes by creating our own opportunities.Use your all of your strengths and resources and put them to work for you!"

About Me

Hello Daters!

My name is Cameron and I am the head matchmaker/dating coach at Insti(Gay)tor. I specialize in helping GLBT singles find loving relationships that work for them.

Lets face it, finding love can be hard. Many of us work hectic schedules, have grown tired of the bar scene or simply just may not be up-to-date on our methods of flirtation.

At Insti(Gay)tor, we offer a variety of membership-based services that can not only help you target your search for love, but also provide a safe and exciting alternative to the usual.

I have been coaching for about 10 years now, with a 3 year concentration on gay dating and relationships. I find that as I continue to focus on building my abilities as a coach, I am constantly developing new ways to put my talents to work for singles in the gay community.

My clients often refer to me as a “Mr. Fix It” and often compliment my ability to see the big picture. I am all about strategy so once we isolate the issue, I work with my clients one-on-one to develop a results oriented game plan and from there… It’s time for action and accountability!

You see.. My goal is to help you find the man or woman of your dreams by eliminating the frustration that comes with the dating process and giving you the resources you need to improve your love life.

Through my exclusive matchmaking and coaching packages, speaking engagements, online media and over one thousand subscribers, I have instigated over 50 dates. Over a 1 year period, 32 of those first dates resulted in a 2nd meeting. Eleven of those members are now in relationships based on introductions received through Insti(Gay)tor… and to be honest, I’m just warming up!

As convenient as it would be, love doesn’t come in box. It doesn’t come perfectly packaged with a ribbon on top. It does take effort and if what you are doing is not working, why not step outside that box and try something different?

Change can be a scary thing, especially when it comes to dating, but it definitely helps to have someone to guide you through it and get you to where you want to be.

With Insti(Gay)tor, it’s like having your own personal wingman cheering you towards  success!

Thank you again for checking us out and don' forget to Download our FREE E-Guide “3 Secrets To Attract More Dates” or contact me directly for a FREE 60 minute consultation.

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

Nobody really teaches men, gay and straight alike, how to date and really make the most of it. Basically, we learn by trial and error and by the time you get into your groove, you find that you may have missed out on a lot of great guys.

I had always toyed with the idea of becoming a matchmaker. Hell, I had already done the legwork on a personal level,  but I wanted to do more than just be your typical wingman. I wanted to do something that could help guys like me who been in crappy relationships, ended them and wanted to move forward without compromising their needs or self-worth. I thought about it and decided to combine my passion for coaching, my interest in matchmaking and my need to be social to create Insti(Gay)tor, The Exclusive Gay Matchmaking Agency.

Success Stories

Starting Over - With A Little Help

​"Cameron is a bad ass! He’s like a cross between Hitch and Olivia Pope except he’s real. He helped me face some very tough situations and get over many of the hang-ups that I was holding on to from past relationships. I consider him to be a trusted advisor when it comes to playing the gay dating game." – Sergio, NYC

Together - 1 Year Later

"I started working with Cameron and he really took the time to understand my needs. He set me up on a few dates and I was pleasantly surprised with the men he had scouted for me. I have been partnered with one of the guys for the past year and a half and I think he’s the one." - Jason, NYC


Sucessful Match in 3 Months

"Things are awesome! After signing up and working with Cameron I approached a special someone and 3 months later we're in a relationship. I am so happy and owe it all to you guys. Keep up the good work!" - Patrick , Schaumburg, IL​


Gay Dating Strategies - 1st Approach

"I have seen a huge transformation in my personal skills relating to dating in general. I have more confidence to start the first approach. I have learned invaluable techniques for handling a variety of situations you guys are the best!" - Marc, Chicago, IL​​​


Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inMultiple states/provinces, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseLife Coach
Relationship Coach
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Other, please inquire
I am fluent inEnglish
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