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How To Tell If A Guy Is Interested In You

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How To Tell If A Guy Is Interested In You
Does calling or texting really matter? Find out the one true way to tell if a guy is interested.

The 2009 movie, He’s Just Not That Into You followed a variety of characters as they attempted to decode how men were feeling. There were single women, attached women, and married women all pondering the same questions, and they were all attempted to figure out the hidden meaning behind every word and action of the men around them.

Women want to know how to tell if a guy is interested.

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Although this film provides an amusing take on meeting guys, it isn’t nearly as difficult as the viewers are led to believe.

I am consistently bombarded with questions from my readers asking me to decode the words or actions of a guy they met or like. I am often asked questions like; what does it mean if he texts me instead of calls me? Do you think he likes me even if he waited three days to call? He called the next day and I didn’t answer, but he hasn’t called again, does that mean he wasn’t really interested?

My advice to these ladies is almost universal; pay attention to what a guy does.

It doesn’t matter if a guy calls of texts, the important thing is that he is attempting to make contact with you. Some guys are simply more comfortable texting, or they may be less fearful of rejection through a text than an awkward phone call. Texting versus calling is not a secret sign detecting his level of interest.

In regards to how long he waits before calling, the thing you need to pay attention to is that he called. If a guy is not interested, he is not going to call you at all.

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