The Zodiac Sign That Brings The Worst Out Of You
Unfortunately, some zodiac signs are just plain incompatible.
Pexels Some zodiac signs mix like water and fire. They either drain each other's energy or bring out the worst in each other. In astrology, these are called karmic relationships. Although it's never bad to learn from a relationship filled with conflict, that doesn't mean that you should get married or try to stay together at lovers.
If you notice that someone brings out the worst in you from the very beginning, you might want to understand why. Horoscope signs have purposes to fulfill. Yours might be to teach each other a life lesson involving love.
Love is one of the greatest feelings on Earth. Which is why it's hard to imagine being in a relationship with an incompatible zodiac sign who brings out the WORST in you. Our significant others are supposed to encourage us, help us grow, and be someone we can turn to when we don't want to be alone.
How do you know when someone isn't right for you? I myself, have been through a handful of unhealthy relationships. People really can tear you apart, including those that say they love you. Even if you consider yourself to be the "entire package" in the dating world, there are in fact people out there who aren't compatible with you. When this happens, you both find a way to unlock traits that are your worst, some you didn't even know were in you.
What you think is a solid, committed relationship can actually turn into a series of bad dates and disappointments. To avoid any chance of being heartbroken and angry, it's good to really pay attention to the details of your relationship to make sure it's healthy and benefiting you in all the ways that it should.
If you're single and ready to find the love of your life, then you know you have a lot of searching to do. Lots...and lots... of searching. If you want to shorten the process, there's one thing you can do. Think about your zodiac sign and your partner's zodiac sign.
There are some pairs of zodiac signs that are perfect together, and some that are not so great combinations. If you're on the search for true love, read on to find out which zodiac sign (or signs) brings out the WORST in you. Trust me when I say that this could save your life.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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Most incompatible with: Virgo
If you ever go on a date with a Virgo, disaster is prone to happen. As an Aries, you’re adventurous, confident, and always open to trying new things. Virgos are the complete opposite. They’re very cautious about how they live their lives and might even be intimidated by how open and ambitious you are.
As an Aries, you thrive on being around people who are thrill-seekers like you. When you're in a relationship with someone who's holding you back and making your big dreams feel small, you may find yourself feeling lonely, anxious, and possibly depressed.
Instead of letting a Virgo’s insecurities and doubts frustrate you, it’s better to just find someone who is just as daring as you are.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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Most incompatible with: Gemini
Being a Taurus, you enjoy being close to your partner intimately. You love all the physical pleasures of a relationship: cuddling, holding hands, make-out seshes, you name it. On the other hand, Gemini’s are known to be emotionally detached and don’t connect with their partners in a touchy intimate way.
A Gemini’s distant behavior will make you feel lonely and unsatisfied in your relationship with them. Not just that, but their unwillingness to express their emotions in an affectionate way might cause you to question your expectations and just stoop down to compiling with whatever they want.
Instead of letting your emotions get the best of you, you should be with someone who appreciates your touchy side.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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Most incompatible with: Cancer
If you’re crushing on a Cancer, sorry to tell you, but you might want to consider other options. Have you ever noticed how much talking you do when having conversations with other people? Well, Cancer’s are very big on listening and like to know that they’re being heard.
Chattiness is not something a Cancer is attracted to. You'll want someone who you can share your thoughts and ideas with, and unfortunately, a Cancer isn't going to be the one to take you seriously.
This might be due to the fact that Cancer’s are very emotional people and love to discuss their feelings — which is something you as a Gemini don’t tend to do.
Your need for mentally stimulating conversation is bound to clash with a Cancer's need to emotionally open up, making for a relationship where both people feel trapped and weighed down.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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Most incompatible with: Libra
Imagine you’re sitting at home — snuggled up on the couch watching a movie with your Libra partner. Totally sounds like your favorite pastime, right? However, your Libra partner will probably be wishing that they were out with friends having a good time.
That’s right, Libra’s are known to be social butterflies and nights at home are their last resort. Not only will you feel pressured to step out of your comfort zone all the time, but you won’t have much opportunity to spend time with your partner the way you want to.
Dating a Libra might also make you a little possessive and distrusting. Being at home, wondering where your partner is all the time - it'll be hard for you to feel relaxed and comfortable.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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Most incompatible with: Leo
If you’re a Leo, don’t be expecting love letters and heartfelt text messages from your Leo boyfriend. Leo men don’t normally like to talk about their feelings. While you’re expecting an honest, open relationship, a Leo guy is pretty set in their ways and won’t be doing much opening up.
Relationships are all about give and take, right? If you’re dating a Leo, there’s a high chance that your needs won’t be met. If both people are incapable of meeting the other’s needs, there’s no chance for a successful relationship.
You'll feel as if he doesn't appreciate you, which could shoot your self-esteem to the ground if you're the romantic type. Not only will you lose confidence in yourself, but believing that you deserve better might also be a challenge.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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Most incompatible with: Virgo
Just because you’re dating someone with the same zodiac sign as you doesn’t always mean it’s going to work out. Virgos have a very hard time understanding other Virgos.
One reason for this is because, as a Virgo, you probably don’t have much confidence in yourself and can overly critical of other people. Imagine dating another person who’s the same way. Yikes.
Also, being a Virgo, you’re very detail oriented and give lots of attention to the smallest things. If you’re dating another Virgo, you’ll see that they do the exact same thing.
How are you ever going to make time for each other when both of you are so caught up in little matters that probably aren’t all that important? You should be with someone who helps you grow and develop new ways of thinking, not someone who mimics all the same habits that you have.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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Most incompatible with: Cancer
As a Libra, you’re on the search for a partner who you can have a strong mental connection with. On the other hand, Cancer’s are looking for a relationship with a strong emotional connection, which isn’t the same thing. But that’s not the biggest issue.
If you’re dating a Cancer, be prepared for moodiness, a little hostility, and temper tantrums. When a Cancer is upset, they will distance themselves and keep everything bottled up.
Being a Libra, you value balance and harmony in your relationships. You want to make your Cancer partner happy, but because they’re so moody and distant, you’ll find yourself frustrated when trying to talk to them.
Cancers are also emotional people and expect their partners to be affectionate 24/7. While you enjoy intimacy, you definitely won’t have the patience for your Cancer’s neediness. The lack of harmony in the relationship will wear you out and cause a lot of argument and stress.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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Most incompatible with: Aquarius
If you’re seeing an Aquarius, you’ll come to realize that both of you have a lot in common. Both of you are independent, rebellious, and sometimes irresponsible and reckless. You’re also both really stubborn.
When conflict arises, neither of you want to be the first to apologize — causing your arguments to drag on for long periods of time. Your Aquarius partner can sometimes be emotionally insubstantial and often a little too independent.
Because you expect a little more emotional intimacy in your relationship, your Aquarius partner might view you as obsessive and needy. Because both of your needs aren’t being met, you’ll have a hard time communicating and understanding each other.
If both of you refuse to find the middle ground, don’t expect your relationship with an Aquarius to last for very long.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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Most incompatible with: Taurus
A Taurus thrives on security, stability, and tradition. While you enjoy their practicality and the fact that they’re responsible and dedicated, there’s one big thing that you just can’t stand about them.
A Taurus likes to be the one in control in a relationship and can be very stubborn and picky. There’s nothing you hate more as a Sagittarius than feeling controlled.
You like to have fun, and enjoy your freedom every once in a while. Because your Taurus partner is so stubborn, you won’t have much luck trying to get them to change and be more laid-back.
There’s no doubt that you’ll feel trapped in your relationship with a Taurus, which can be very unhealthy. Being with someone who takes an interest in your hobbies and interests is how you grow. Dating someone who tries to hold you back can cause a lot of internal damage in the long run.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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Most incompatible with: Aries
Aside from trust and honesty, patience is a big must have in any relationship. You understand this and are known to have good patience in your relationships. However, your Aries partner is the complete opposite.
An Aries is far from patient. They enjoy being impulsive and care-free, which can make you anxious around them. As a Capricorn, you like to plan ahead and think about the future.
An Aries has no problem living in the moment and sometimes doesn’t even give any thought about the next day. Being in a relationship where you’re always nervous and worried about your partner’s actions is not healthy by any means.
Both of you should be on the same page about most things, as this will make the relationship smoother and less complicated. If you feel like you have to take care of your partner as you would a child, then you'll not only lose respect for them — but also yourself.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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Most incompatible with: Pisces
An Aquarius is an air sign, and a Pisces is a water sign. Can you already see why this pair doesn’t work? An Aquarius is the least emotional of the zodiacs, while a Pisces is the most emotional.
See where this is going? You’re an intellectual who likes to look at the bigger picture when it comes to helping people and making a difference.
On the other hand, a Pisces is willing to lose their left leg trying to make you happy. Pisces tend to act on emotion, and will often read too deeply into things. This can make them obsessive and fragile, which is very irritating to you.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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Most incompatible with: Sagittarius
You love emotional intimacy in your relationships. Which is exactly why a Sagittarius is not the one for you. If you’re dating a Sagittarius, be prepared for them to be direct with you, and sometimes a little blunt.
Because your Sagittarius partner is so direct and open, you’ll notice that they can be impulsive and will do things without taking the future into consideration.
Pisces are known to be a little more on the conservative side, so when you see your partner being so care-free and fearless, you’ll start to become frustrated by their recklessness.
Another big red flag is that a Sagittarius can be a little hesitant when it comes to commitment. This won’t meet your needs for security, which will make you unhappy in the long run.