How He'll Try To Win You Back, Based On His Zodiac Sign

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Some breakups stick — they’re permanent, everlasting, and rigid. And most of the time, that’s exactly what you need to move on, aside from reading your horoscope for an answer. Then there are the breakups that just don’t feel right as if there was much left to explore in the relationship and no matter how much you want closure, you just don’t get it.

What if you’re the one who instigated the breakup but then had second thoughts? It’s more than awkward to say, “Oh sorry, I made a mistake. Can we undo that breakup? Take bad those strong words?”

Maybe you took long to get back together with your partner but you think they’ve moved on and are having a much better life without you than they ever did with you. You resign yourself to not obsess, to not check their social media so much, and to not expect any more contact with them.

Or maybe, you hope for friendship and think that maybe the friendship can bloom back into a relationship. It’s possible. How do you know that your ex is thinking the same thing and is wondering what they can do to win you back again?

How do you know when your ex is being friendly or flirty? There are times when we need to have our eyes open and be able to decipher the small nuances of behavior that suggest that friendship isn’t the only thing on your ex’s mind.

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What are the lines that someone must cross to go from friend to significant other? If you don’t know, you may be blinded by how he tries to win you back and rekindle your relationship.

Astrology can help you out by giving clues according to each person’s zodiac sign about how he tries to win you back. If you know that your ex isn’t just fixing your computer to be nice but to ingratiate themselves back into your life, you’ll know what you need to do to either send them back to the friend-zone or reignite that passion you once had.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

Aries are very energetic and are always doing some cool activity. When he wants you back, he's going to invite you to participate in group activities like paintball and barbecues. He'll say that it's cool if you want to bring a date but that's a lie. If you do bring a date, he'll be very nice to them but will be secretly thinking of ways that he can show off while making your date look foolish. He's hoping that once you see what you're missing out on, you'll want to get back together.

 

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

The Taurus guy is going to try to show you how much he's changed. Before, he was not into social media; now, he's on a posting frenzy. If before he preferred not to step out of his comfort zone, he's going to do things he'd never ever do if he wasn't trying to impress you. Taurus likes to be comfortable, so a 600-mile bike ride for charity isn't something that they usually do for fun. But if it helps to reunite the two of you, he'll do it with a smile and blisters on his feet.

 

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Commitment isn't Gemini's favorite thing but if they want you back badly enough, they'll do something that will make their plans clear like move into a new apartment (one with adequate closet space) or delete all their apps. They want you to know that they realize they won't do better and that you are the best person they could ever hope to be with. There's a reason that they'll get their grandmother's wedding ring from their mother.

 

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

When a Cancer wants you back, expect a full-on campaign. They'll send you flowers or edible flower arrangements if you're allergic, and they'll confess their feelings in emails, messages, texts, and in song. If they were close to your parents at all, they'll ask them for advice on how to show how sincere they are in winning your love back. Cancers are every romantic movie where the boy loses the girl and must get her back by any means necessary.

 

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)

One of the tricks that Leo has up their sleeve is the grand gesture, so there'll be no mistaking when they're trying to win you back. Nothing is too outrageous or bold for them — skywriting, composing a song and singing it (much to the delight or dismay of your neighbors) to you outside your bedroom window, or surprising you with a trip for you and all your friends to New York City or Las Vegas. They're masters at present-giving too so expect a gift or ten coming your way.

 

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VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

The Virgo man is going to maneuver his way back into your life and make it so that you'll wonder how you could ever do without him. He'll be helpful, supportive, and so diligent that when you have a problem, he won't stop until he's solved it. He'll carry out his plan in stealth mode so you won't know what he's doing until he's won you back.

 

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

To win you back, the Libra man will start checking in with you — you know, just to say hi and see how you're doing. But in the middle of these text messages or phone calls, he's going to compliment you and say sweet things that will go right to your heart. "I can't understand why you're still single," he might say or, "I was an idiot to give you up." He's manipulating you and it's up to you if you want to be flattered by it or call him out on his B.S.

 

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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

If there's even an ounce of regret in the fact that the two of you broke up, Scorpio is going to get immediately obsessed and will be following your every move on social media and stalking you. No, it's not an accident that you keep running into him. Don't let his passion scare you; it may be intense but it's probably not dangerous. He just gets very passionate when he wants something or someone, and he'll do whatever he can to get it.

 

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

Sagittarius will try to convince you that your breakup was an error on his part and then try to explain logically and philosophically why you are stronger together than apart. He has a very strong sense of right and wrong and his sheer conviction that what he's saying is correct that he may be able to get you to come over to his side.

 

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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

To get you to come back to him, the Capricorn man will enlist the help of anybody that knows the two of you including his friends, your friends, the waiter at that restaurant you used to go to together, and both of your families. Yeah, don't be surprised if your dry-cleaner gives you a lecture on how your ex is such a good man and how, if you're wise, you'll give your relationship another chance.

 

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

The Aquarius guy is going to do something he normally doesn't do: he's going to apologize and take responsibility for his part in the breakup. He'll let you know that he wants you back and is willing to do better if given a second chance. He's not one for getting overly emotional but he may actually cry when trying to win you back.

 

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

Pisces is going to get raw and real with emotions and tell you exactly how much his life sucks without you. He'll probably have lost weight, developed insomnia, and may be indulging in some kind of an addiction. He'll let you know he's a mess without you and that he needs you in his life for it to have any meaning. He'll be pretty dramatic and will hopefully use all this angst in an art piece of some kind or a poem.

 

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