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Let's be honest here.
By Emily Ratay — Written on Apr 07, 2017
There are two types of people in the world: those who have known what their kinks are since the beginning of time, and those who have just started thinking that there may be more to life than plain-old vanilla sex.
Getting kinky is what makes sex exciting, and honestly, you don’t have to get TOO crazy with it to like kinky sex either.
Kinks can range from dirty talk and sexting to a playroom that has one wall covered entirely with whips and chains.
Whatever your preferences are, they should only ever enhance your sexual exploits, not take away from them.
If you try something new and it makes you feel uncomfortable and not sexy at all, then maybe it’s not for you.
As an Aquarius, I find it easy to say, “try something new in the bedroom” because that is exactly what my sign likes to do, but for other signs, trying to find what works, bringing it up to your partner, and going shopping for any equipment you might need can actually be very overwhelming.
So, just like anything else in life, it’s important to try your kinks one at a time.
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For those of us who don’t have any clue where to start when it comes to introducing new kinks into the bedroom, the Internet seems like it would be a good place to start, but I should warn you: there’s a little too much information out there for beginners.
Instead, you and your partner should think about what you already love about sex and build off of that.
Who knows? Playing with handcuffs could end up being the perfect accessory for role playing.
So, to help get you started with ideas that may just end up being your new favorite thing in the bedroom, read on to find out what zodiac sign kinks you and your partner should try next.
ARIES (Mar 21 - Apr 19)
Aries is all about being the center of attention, so what better way to let her do her thang than on the big screen?
Making a sex tape is perfect for an Aries because whether she does it on her own or with a partner, she’ll always be the star of the show.
With a sex tape, Aries can show off her moves and really get into character.
The best part? She’ll have it saved if she ever wants to watch it again. Talk about kinky.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)
TAURUS (Apr 20 - May 20)
Taurus is a very sensitive and tactile lover, which means that touch is incredibly important to her during sex.
She is a huge believer in foreplay and her performance in the bedroom is SO much better when she’s got enough lovin’ first.
Sensation play is right up her alley because it combines everything she loves about sex and romance.
Whether wax, ice, or feathers is in her wheelhouse, anything that adds to her sensual side is perfect for her. Add a blindfold or edibles to her kink to really get her going.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini is great with communication, which is why role playing is perfect for her.
She’s not afraid to be vocal about playing characters and getting into the scene, while still being sexy about it.
Role playing is also perfect for a Gemini because it’s a great way to spice up sex without getting bored.
Sick of playing teacher and bad student? Try naughty maid instead! It also keeps her and her partner talking about what they like and dislike so that sex stays fun for both parties.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancer is all about romance when it comes to sex, but that doesn’t mean she’s vanilla about it.
Instead of rough sex, she prefers lots of touch and sensuality, which is why her kinks often reflect this.
Edibles will get Cancer excited about sex because there is a whole range of things she can try depending on her comfort level.
Whether she wants to start tame with whipped cream or get really naughty with edible panties, she’ll get to try something new and still get to be very romantic about it.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)
LEO (July 23 - Aug 22)
Leo loves to be in control in the bedroom, simply because she’s often in charge in life anyway.
That said, relinquishing some of that control can be very sexy to her and she’s always up for trying something new.
Bondage is one of Leo’s favorite sexual kinks for two reasons: she likes not having control (and being bossed around by someone else) and she’s still very much the center of attention during playtime; it’s everything Leo loves about sex!
READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)
VIRGO (Aug 23 - Sep 22)
Virgo likes focusing on her partner’s favorite things in the bedroom that she often forgets to talk about what SHE wants to try.
When it comes to sex, she likes pleasuring her partner as much as they pleasure her, so anything that keeps things mutually fun is perfect for her.
Like Virgo, 69ing is very under-appreciated. There are so many different ways to do this position, whether she chooses to try it the old-fashioned way or get creative with it, that she’ll never get bored.
It also gives her the option to start small when it comes to introducing kinks, so that eventually she can try something naughtier.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
LIBRA (Sept 23 - Oct 22)
Just like everything else in life, Libra appreciates sex that is all about give and take, so that everyone involved is happy.
If she or her partner feels like the other is getting too much attention to their needs, she will always be the first one to stop play and figure out how to make it better for both of them.
A dominant/submissive relationship is perfect for Libra in that sense.
She enjoys both roles (and you know she’ll try both ends of the spectrum), but more than that, it makes her feel like she is in an equal relationship where both people are happy.
READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)
SCORPIO (Oct 23 - Nov 21)
Nothing says Scorpio like pushing the boundaries during sex.
She’s probably already tried (and is bored with) most everything IN the bedroom, so taking it out of the bedroom is a good way for her to keep her sex life alive.
She is very willing to try new things, so exhibitionism and public sex are the way to go.
Scorpio will be thrilled to get out of her comfort zone, while still getting to be naughty (and sneaky). This kink will allow her to push her limits and have fun.
READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)
SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 - Dec 19)
Sagittarius is all about fun, which doesn’t stop when it comes to sex.
If she could have one wish come true, it would probably to make sure the fun she has with friends doesn’t stop, even in her relationship. Well, girl, your wish has been granted.
Whether she’s talked to you about it yet or not, a threesome is probably way up there on Sagittarius’ list of kinks.
It’s light and fun, there’s no strings attached, and best of all, she can still do something fun with her friends. Perfect!
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)
CAPRICORN (Dec 20 - Jan 19)
Usually the master of self-control, mutual masturbation forces Capricorn to lose restraint.
But more than that, she has to be the one to get herself off, which is something she’d never admit in casual conversation is incredibly sexy to her.
What’s more, her partner can add dirty talk to the fun so that Capricorn can get out of her comfort zone a bit and try something completely new.
You’ll be surprised how easy she picks it up; she’s a lot kinkier in the bedroom than people first think.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)
AQUARIUS (Jan 20 - Feb 18)
Aquarius is down to do a lot of things in the bedroom, whether it’s a new take on something old or something new altogether.
Her own request is that there be room to modify the fun when things start getting stale.
Spanking, whipping, and flogging are right up her alley because there’s a variety of ways to do this without ever getting bored.
Aquarius can start a treasure trove of toys and equipment for these activities, as well as add new positions and ideas to the mix, keeping sex as unique as her.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)
PISCES (Feb 19 - Mar 20)
Pisces is all about keeping sex romantic because to her, nothing says fun like a lot of love n’ touch.
That said, she can get easily bored if the romance starts to get vanilla; she’s always up for a little variety.
Blindfolding is very sensual and will often lead to her trying new things with her partner.
Because she is such an open person to trying new kinks, her partner can keep this romantic with tactile tools, such as feathers, or surprise her by adding other ways to block her senses, such as handcuffs.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces (As Written By A Pisces)