The Kinky Stuff Your Man Is DYING To Do In Bed (But Won't Admit!)

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As told by men.

When it comes to talking about our sexual fantasies it's normal to feel shy, especially if those fantasies are kinky or unique. 

It's a double-edged sword, because when we're building a relationship we're not instantly okay with being 100% vulnerable.

But by sharing our kinky streak we are MAKING ourselves vulnerable and hoping our partners understand.

The truth is that there is nothing weird about having kinky desires, even if you're nervous to bring them up.

I have kinky desires ... and I know how hard they can be to talk about it.

So in the hopes of making more people out there comfortable with sharing their own kinks, I asked a group of anonymous men to open up.

These anonymous men share with me the kinky fantasies they are often nervous to bring up in relationships.

I think you'll find them less than shocking, and mostly just kind of hot! 

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  • "I would love to try fisting her, but I have zero idea how to bring it up. I feel like you can't be spontaneous about fisting."
     
  • "I have always had a fantasy of sharing my sexy wife with another man. To be able to watch her body get the pleasure that takes her over the edge of an orgasm that she will never forget. Gets me every time."
     
  • "In bed I'm the one who is always initiating and always dominating. I wouldn't mind switching it, having her really take charge sounds hot to me."
     
  • "Calling me daddy during sex."


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  • "For her to have sex with her best friend while I watch the whole thing."
     
  • "I don't know that it's a kinky thing really, but I want to try anal sex with someone."
     
  • "Fucking her in public, some place like a bar bathroom, that really turns me on that idea." 
     
  • "Seriously taboo, but I like the idea of getting my girl pregnant against her will. I'd never really do it but the idea really gets me hard."


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  • "I'm not into BDSM, but my girlfriend can be seriously way too in control in the bedroom. I would love the chance to show her that I was really in charge."
     
  • "I'd love to explore spanking my partner.
     
  • "Topless maids." 
     

I mean, who wouldn't want topless maids?

Even if you aren't into boobs your house is going to be cleaned. I am totally okay with that! 

 

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