You might not own up to this but the stars know all about it.
There are some aspects of our personalities that we have difficulty revealing to anybody, even ourselves. Being completely honest with yourself can be extremely difficult. We know we’re not perfect but some personality flaws are just incredibly hard to admit. It’s not that you’ll think less of yourself, it’s that knowing our frailties and imperfections can make us feel weak.
The truth is that when you see yourself with your eyes wide open and come to terms with every part of yourself — good or bad — you become stronger.
When you embrace your weaknesses and idiosyncrasies, no one can use them against you. We’re all lacking or are broken, but we can’t let those qualities scare us away from being our own allies and advocates.
If you know that you’re someone who absolutely refuses to take directions from somebody else, then you know how to work within those confines. Maybe you get a really good GPS system or maybe you research travel options beforehand so you can trust your instincts.
No one knows exactly what they’re doing all the time or in every situation. Sometimes part of the fun is making our way blindly as we go along.
If you knew how to do everything, you’d never need to learn anything, and not only would your life be kind of boring, but you wouldn’t continue to grow. There’s a freedom in knowing exactly how you feel, especially if it’s the kind of information you keep to yourself. Nobody needs to know all your business. It’s also OK to let people see your more vulnerable side.
People are messy, often insecure, complicated mysteries and any insight we can get about ourselves can be a valuable tool. As always, astrology can give us some understanding, especially about the things and personality flaws we won’t admit to others and the things we try not to admit to ourselves.
Here's your biggest personality flaw, according to your zodiac sign.
People can try but they're never going to get you to admit you don't have a life plan; in fact, you may be an adult but you're still not sure what you want to be when you grow up. You have so many talents and skills so the possibilities are endless. You're going to remain open to new things and jumping in feet first, and hopefully, some kind of plan will take shape.
You know deep down that you're not great with spontaneity and going with the flow. You're not going to share with others the fact that you need to work out every step you take and plan every detail that you can. You're not one to improvise or do something on the fly. You seem easy going and cool with whatever, but secretly you're absolutely sweating the small stuff.
You're always the life of any party and you love to socialize, but there are times when you need some alone time. You'll never admit it, and when you're in the middle of an event and the desire for some solo time comes up, you just push it away. You'd give anything for a little time to regroup and re-energize. In the meantime, "Who wants another cocktail?"
You don't like to acknowledge that you ever feel this way, but sometimes you just don't care. You're always being compassionate and caring, but there are times when you just wish the person who is complaining about their life would just shut up for a few minutes. It's probably because you're very empathetic and already feeling your own feelings without taking anyone else's on.
There are days when you wish somebody else would make all the hard decisions and lead. Could you not be the dominant figure for once? It's exhausting having everyone always look to you for the answers and about how to proceed. You're tired of being responsible and just want someone else to lead.
Your dirty little secret is that you don't know everything. You usually have the solution for every problem and can fix almost anything, but there are times when you just don't know. You wish you could fake it until you make it but that seems so dishonest, so you just research the problem in every conceivable way until you find the answers that you seek — if not, you'll beat yourself up for not knowing.
Everyone thinks you're so laid back and that nothing really riles you up, but the truth is you can get very stressed out and tense. Well-balanced? Not always. You definitely have moments of panic, anxiety, and nervousness but if people want to think you're totally at ease, that's cool.
Scorpios are associated with a high sex drive and it's true you like sex a lot, but what's also true is that love is very important to you. You'd much rather have sex with someone you're deeply in love with than a hot stranger, but nobody who doesn't know you well would ever guess that. Opening your heart is the scariest thing for you to do, so you'll hide your desire for true love from those around you.
No one would ever guess that underneath your open and optimistic attitude, you sometimes feel sad and defeated. You put on a good show that everything is fantastic, but you've got your negative feelings just like every other human. It's not all good and, honestly, that's OK.
One of the reasons that you play everything so safe and are dependable is because you have a lot of fear. Seriously, who wouldn't? There are a lot of things to be afraid of, but you think that having fear makes you weak, even though it doesn't. Instead of trying to ignore your fear, do what you normally do with a problem and face it head on. If you can take some of the power away from what you fear, it won't be half as scary.
You're rebellious and known for being free-spirited, but what people don't know about you is that you crave stability and security. There's nothing wrong with putting down roots and making commitments. You can still see the world while having a home base somewhere.
You're very caring and selfless; however, you have a real problem trusting people and letting them in. They think they know you but it's on a surface level. You keep most people at arm's length, never allowing them to get to know you on a deeper level.