When it comes to guys, the struggle is REAL.
Relationships are hard work. It’s easy to become content in a relationship and get bogged down by the chaos of everyday life. When you’ve got this, that, and everything else, it’s not hard to forget to take the time to REALLY appreciate your man.
Sure, it’s understandable that you’re busy and you may not have given him as much love as he deserves, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t make up for it! Keeping your guy constantly interested will only increase the happiness and success in your relationship.
But, what keeps a guy interested? Isn't THAT the question EVERY girl wants to know!?
Aries men always want to be a number one priority. They seek attention — so be sure to give him yours! They're also incredibly determined and like a challenge, so don't be afraid to hold back some of that attention; playing hard to get will certainly pique their interest. But don't make them chase you too long because they have a tendency to get a tad impatient.
Your man loves to take charge — so let him! If he wants to try something new in the bedroom, maybe now is a good time for you to let him take over. He's enthusiastic and passionate, and he'll surely appreciate these easy measures you take to make him feel like a man!
If you have a Taurus man, you know that he's your big protector. He loves to feel like you need him, and that he makes a difference in your life. So, don't be afraid to tell him how grateful you are to have him to lean on.
Sometimes Taurus' can be stubborn and possessive, and although it may get annoying from time to time, he acts that way out of love — so let him. He's hopelessly romantic, and he'd be more than happy just spending a night in cooking dinner and listening to music with you. You'll always have him to rely on, so treat him well!
Your Gemini is gentle and affectionate, you'll never have to wonder how he feels about you. Expressing your love for him will always go a long way with a Gemini. He hates being alone, so be sure to fill your spare time with fun and exciting things. He doesn't care for routine or repetition either, so keep it interesting and try new things!
He does have a more serious and thoughtful side, so take the time to listen to him. He can also be indecisive at times, so don't be afraid to take the reigns and be the planner every now and then. He'll enjoy the night off from decision making!
Guys under the Cancer sign have a tendency to be emotional and highly attached to those around them. Let him give you all the love he has to give and tell him how much you appreciate it.
It make Cancers happy to help people — especially those closest to them — so if you're ever in need, let him help out. Whether it's asking him to carry the groceries in the house or running an errand, he'll appreciate the opportunity to do something for you.
And in return, do something nice for him — try planning a relaxing day laying by the pool. Nothing like quality time with you in a bikini at the pool to leave him wanting more!
If you've been blessed with a Leo, you know just how irresistible they are — and they know it. They can be a tad arrogant and self-centered at times, so let the conversation revolve around them. Ask him how HIS day was, how HE feels about a certain topic, what HE wants to do Friday night. Give him plenty of attention. There's nothing a Leo hates more than being ignored.
Let him be the dominant one in the relationship. He likes to be in control and take the initiative in solving problems, so give him something to be in charge of. He'll feel needed and it'll be a great ego booster!
Virgo men are helplessly shy and are constantly acting as their biggest critics. You need to reassure him that his loyalty and kindness are incredibly attractive qualities and make him a real catch. He'll appreciate the sentiment and the assurance will do wonders for his self-esteem.
Take the time to clean up the house or swing by the local health food store to pick up their favorite meal. It may seem small, but Virgos have great attention to detail and your attempts to make their day won't go unnoticed.
Whatever you do, don't leave a Libra alone. All they want is companionship and someone by their side — so go ahead and be that person for them! It would work wonders to carve out some time to spend with your man in the great outdoors. There's nothing he loves more than to be at one with nature, and with you by his side, of course.
He hates loudmouths, so don't take over the conversation, let him put his thoughts and ideas out there, too. Don't be afraid to take over the date-night planning here and there, either, he'd love the excuse to hide behind his indecisiveness.
Scorpios are super passionate and dedicated to the ones they love, so in that regard, you're really lucky! However, they can also be jealous and distrusting. You need to make sure that they know how much you love them and reassure them constantly that they can trust you. Assuring your loyalty will go such a long way with a Scorpio.
There's nothing your man loves more than being right, so let him be right. Sounds easy, huh? Well, it's amazing how some of the simplest things can make men go crazy for you!
Sagittarius men are sure to keep you laughing — and they'd love to have the favor returned. Having a good time and fulfilling their sense of curiosity will keep them happy. Travel with him, but also give him the freedom he so desires. Sagittarius' can get sick of clingy people real quick.
Let your optimism and enthusiasm match theirs! Your guy is totally extroverted, so he'd certainly appreciate someone who is just as outgoing and out-of-the-box as he is!
If you were lucky enough to snatch yourself up a Capricorn, then you know you've got one responsible and practical guy. Likewise, he'd prefer you to be just as disciplined. He's also a major know-it-all, so let him feel like he's teaching you a thing or two every so often. It'll make him feel smart and useful to the relationship.
Family is a major priority in his life, so make time to spend with him and his family! He'll appreciate the effort you make to include yourself in his family. They may drive you crazy sometimes, but the payoff to including them is winning the heart of your man!
You've got yourself a deep one with Aquarius men. They're highly intellectual and love a girl who can keep up with them! They may not always be the best at expressing themselves, but letting them know you understand how they feel without them having to say it will go a long way.
They always have a good cause up their sleeve, and taking an interest in whatever they're fighting for is a great way to make them happy. Get involved in what they're passionate about and always be a sympathetic ear!
Pisces are selfless and always willing to help others, but they also have a loner side. Even if you might not want to, sometimes you have to take one for the team and give him some space. He likes his alone time and he'll appreciate you giving him a little time to himself.
He loves romance, so a few romantic gestures — cooking him a nice homemade meal or a steamy night in the bedroom — would be more than welcomed. If you're normally a know-it-all or overly critical, tone it down a bit and give him the appreciation he deserves!