How You REALLY Talk To People, According To Your Zodiac Sign

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How the signs are in conversation.
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The stars know how you talk.

Knowing how to have a conversation is one of the most important skills we can have. Think about it: if you can't carry on a conversation, how can you date or negotiate?

Whenever something important needs to be decided, you have a conversation about it. When you want to get to know someone, you talk and see what things you have in common or if you have the same values. You have to know how to have a conversation in order to get by in the world.

There are many different ways to have a conversation. You can talk to someone in person, via Skype, on the phone, or even by text. Of course, when you have a conversation in real time with sound, you can hear things like tone and inflection that also give meaning to a conversation.

When you're sitting with someone talking, ideally, you're having eye contact and are present in the conversation, and understanding is passing between the two of you.

There are four crucial parts of a conversation: What we say, how we say it, when we say it, and whether we're talking with someone or at someone. Conversation is where we manage our relationships, solve problems, come up with solutions, and process information.

It can be very frustrating if you're trying to have a conversation and you can't engage the person you're speaking to. Or, on the flip side, when you completely click with the person you're talking to and get energized by speaking to them.

Good conversation can be as exciting as foreplay in some cases. For some people, they need to warm up in a conversation, sometimes out of reserve or shyness until they feel comfortable enough to really express themselves.

We express our emotions like anger, happiness, surprise, or sadness. Everything we feel as humans can be expressed through conversation. And how you converse may have a lot to do with the zodiac sign you were born under, as the stars have a lot of influence over our personalities. Here's what each zodiac sign is like in conversation.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)
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Aries have such strong personalities and opinions that talking with them is a two-way street. You either mesh completely and agree on everything or they can't stand you. They like it best if your opinions match up with theirs.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
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Taurus love to talk and have meaningful conversations. However, Taureans can be stubborn, so if you disagree with them, they'll dig their heels in and will refuse to give in. It's impossible to try to change a Taurus' mind if they're not willing to see things from your point of view.

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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Geminis love to engage and talk; in fact, they'll talk your ear off as long as it amuses them. The minute that they get bored, they're done. Best advice for talking with a Gemini: keep the conversation moving.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
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If you have a problem and desperately need to talk about it with someone, Cancer is here for you. They're great listeners and have a lot of empathy so they understand what you're going through. Be prepared to return the favor, as Cancers have lots of emotions and need to let them out on occasion.

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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Timing is everything with a Leo. If you get them at the exactly right moment, you'll have the greatest conversation of your life. If not, it will still be great, just not as deep and philosophical. You'll definitely smile and everything will seem a little better.

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
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If a Virgo ever tells you"I'm going to be a little more outspoken," run for the hills. They're already extremely opinionated and love to share their views on everything with anyone who will listen. But if a Virgo wants to give you some constructive criticism, take it; their intentions are good, they aren't just talking out of their ass, and they have the research to back it up.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)
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Libras are great to talk to as they're very understanding and can see things from your point of view. Now, they can also see things from everyone else's point of view, too, so they may not be the person you go to when ending a conflict or helping you decide between two things. But if you just want someone to listen, then talk to a Libra.

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
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You can confess your secrets to a Scorpio, but don't expect them to tell you theirs; they're very mysterious. Don't lie or try to manipulate them; Scorpios can't stand that kind of behavior.

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
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Sagittarius aren't always around to talk, but when they're there, they're 100 percent present and will consider everything you say very carefully. It's funny that a sign that's so deep is great at small talk, but Sagittarius love to meet new people and having a talent for being able to talk to almost everyone.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
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When a Capricorn has a sit down with you, you know that they're going to be honest, and offer practical suggestions and solutions. If you're talking nonsense, they'll roll their eyes at you and make caustic comments. They don't like to waste their time with someone playing the fool.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
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Having an exchange of ideas is something akin to foreplay for an Aquarius. They have so much to say and will often use humor to make their point. Try not to take it too hard if they playfully insult you or tease you — they're just having fun. Aquarians love to talk about humanitarian issues and social justice, so don't be surprised if they seem as if they're lecturing you.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
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If you can get a Pisces' head out of the clouds, you'll have a good conversation with them. They're funny, smart and see almost everything in a more artistic and beautiful way. Pisces are intuitive and sympathetic, and will say whatever they can if they sense you're feeling down.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One

 

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