Loving Day: The Love Story That Legalized Interracial Marriage

Loving Day, Mildred Jeter and Richard Loving, interracial marriage

Today marks the anniversary of the Supreme Court decision to legalize interracial marriage.

Today marks the 46th anniversary of Loving v. Virginia (1967), the Supreme Court decision that legalized interracial marriage in the United States. For some of us, it may seem unfathomable that there was a time when it was illegal to marry someone because of the color of their skin, but this was the reality in many states less than 50 years ago. In fact, the Loving case is often used to support the current movement to legalize gay marriage.

The Supreme Court's decision in Loving v. Virginia marks a milestone in the civil rights movement, but it is also the story of a real couple who fought for their union to be recognized so that they could live in peace and in love together legally, regardless of the color of their skin.

Mildred Jeter and Richard Loving were born and raised in Virginia. In the mid 1960s, they fell in love and wanted to get married, but there was only one problem: he was white, she was black. Like many other states, Virginia had a law called the Racial Integrity Act of 1924 which prohibited marriage between people of different races.  To avoid this roadblock, the couple traveled together to Washington, D.C. to legally marry. Sound familiar? This has been the reality for many gay couples who have traveled to different states or countries in order for their union to be recognized in the eyes of the law.

After the Lovings returned to settle in Virginia, an anonymous tip spurred local police to raid their home in the middle of the night in an attempt to catch the couple having sexual intercourse, which was also illegal between members of different races. The officers found the Lovings asleep in bed and they were arrested. The officers also allegedly discovered the marriage certificate on their bedroom wall, which later became evidence for their alleged crime: "cohabitating as man and wife," a felony punishable by a one to five year sentence in prison. The couple pled guilty to their "crime" and received a suspended sentence of one year — on the condition that they vacate the state of Virginia.

The couple then moved to Washington D.C., but faced many obstacles because racism was rampant everywhere. They were unable to secure their own property or travel together and they felt the agony of social isolation away from their family and home state. Finally, Mildred Loving wrote a letter to Robert F. Kennedy, Attorney General at the time, who referred her to the ACLU. The ALCU took an interest in their case, appealed the Virginia Court's decision, and the case eventually made it to the United States Supreme Court. Though the couple did not appear at oral arguments, Richard Loving sent a simple message to the Court through his attorney: " … tell the Court I love my wife, and it is just unfair that I can't live with her in Virginia."

The Supreme Court agreed with the Lovings and found that laws like the one in Virginia banning interracial relationships were unconstitutional. In the Court's opinion, Chief Justice Earl Warren described marriage as one of the "basic civil rights of man fundamental to our very existence and survival."  He stated, "Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides within the individual and cannot be infringed on by the State." Keep Reading ...

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