"Sarah" recently sent me this as an email response to how her ongoing sex life coaching sessions have improved her married sex life with her husband, "Jeremy." Sarah has a focused desire for great sex and throwing away all the tired old actions and messages that kept her from that. Jeremy does too now that he sees an effective path to making that happen. Many of my clients fall into this catagory of focus on what they want and have had enough of the pressure to bury their dreams of great sex and orgasms:
The individual and couple benefits my husband Jeremy and I have already enjoyed from your clear, creative knowledge base are incredible! I felt somewhat off-course over the years when I've focused on what was missing with sex, that maybe dissatisfaction was more a result of other marital woes and not at the heart of things. I was afraid to know what I knew (that sex is so central to my life force & if I can't figure out how to have a fulfilling sex/life journey with my spouse, our union can't indefinitely withstand the pressure). Many relationship and personal habit adjustments are further possible with your practical help!
Working with a professional, enthusiastic straight guy has given my husband such a masculine boost- he's got tailored access to accurate info that guarantees more physical lovin' with the woman he loves. And with your support and insights into women and sex, I'm moving into a stronger place... with renewed courage to evolve sexually. Celebrating with Jeremy rather than down-playing my non-conventional side and need for growth. My refreshed, excited spirit makes it so I can't wait to implement principled actions (with regard to caring communication, techniques, and attention to details/bigger picture modes) in and out of the bedroom. Areas where we don't match up exactly aren't so threatening or necessarily static. Our sexy time has a new lightness and patience in addition our concentrated practice and focus. I don't think traditional therapy avenues would yield that core result for us. And it's just gotta be more fun!
You are a gem among men and experts. I say that not knowing you long- but I dig the steady, genuine vibe to which approach your coaching sessions and writing perspective! THANK YOU for making yourself available for those seeking real sexual expression!!
-Sarah, age 30