It is absolutely true that a sex life can be enjoyed regardless of the shape someone is in. My sex life coaching works for a wide range of body types. It is also true that people in better shape have certain advantages in the bedroom. This blog post will cover several of the most relevant muscle groups for both women and men plus the effect they have on your sex and orgasm quality and possibilities. 4 Benefits Of Working Out As A Couple
Abs: This muscle group is one of the most important for men or women on top. The abs are called on most to drive the pelvis during missionary and sideways missionary intercourse, which is still quite popular. Speeding up the rhythm of his thrust multiplies the effort required to keep up that pace. Slow is also great, it can contribute perfectly to big orgasms, and fast can make it feel like a blur of friction that isn't as good as the details you can feel with a slower pace. That being said, fast has its place and specific advantages too. There are times when certain types of penetration must be done at a rapid rate based on the needs of his partner's body/genitals to reach orgasm or have the best time possible. There still other situations that have nothing to do with the receiving partner's needs and everything to do with the man expressing his overpowering desire for his partner and masculine sexual intention.
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Abs also play a lesser role in many other positions because they will be recruited for most forms of thrusting. This is why I put ab workouts at the top of the list. The more crunches you can do, the more endurance you'll have, which translates into being able to thrust rapidly for a longer period of time. This is exactly what your partner may need for a favorite type of big orgasm. Triggering certain orgasms in a given person can also require specific forms of energy-intensive stimulation. If you have what it takes to trigger it, great! If not, then that's okay, but it's time to get back in the gym.
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My favorite way to workout my abs is with an abs machine that allows me to up the weight over time in a precise way. After you do crunches to a certain point, curling your own body weight won't be enough for further gains. Crunches on the floor are hard on your tail bone and lower back. You also wont be able to add more weight resistance to your crunches in a way that is easy to manage for the majority of people. I've seen my most consistent gains in my abs since using a crunches machine.
Quads/thighs: This muscle group is equally important to abs for both women and men. Strong, developed thighs allow a woman to sit astride her man (or penetrating woman) and buck and grind for as long as she wants or needs to drive him or her or herself over the edge into a big-O. This is a popular position for indirect clitoral stimulation during intercourse which works nicely for those women with a clitoris sensitive enough to build up and orgasm from vaginal penetration, plus indirect clitoral stimulation against her partner's pelvis. Even if a woman is not sensitive enough, she can still use this position and combine other forms of direct clitoral stimulation with it. Tips For Improving Your Orgasm!