5 Fashion Choices That Turn Him Off
A guy's take on female fashion: 5 mistakes that turn him off.
Do you reveal a lot of cleavage? Layer on the cubic zirconia? Wear fake eyelashes on a regular basis? If so, we have bad news for you: Marie Claire's guy blogger doesn't want to date you.
Rich Santos, author of Sex And The Single Guy recently posted 5 women's fashion choices that turn him off. The first is too much makeup.
When a girl does her makeup well, the results can be magical. But the one thing that should never happen is excessive application: too much, too many colors, or if it's just a botched attempt at a good makeup technique.
Next, too much cleavage. Sadly, Love Buzz has never been guilty of this. (Although Love Buzz's other personalities might have different information….)
Cleavage is most effective when there's a little hint of it, and then we are left to imagine what else is there. [Excessive cleavage] takes the focus off of the things about you that matter: your face, what you actually have to say, etc.
Third on his list is sluttiness—and his reason for not liking an overly sexed woman is interesting: "I'm immediately struck with intimidation-the same kind I get around strippers." Kind of nice to know we can intimidate with our beauty! Er, or our short skirts. But not nice to know that our platform stilettos make Rich "worry about who else she has slept with-and you know I always fear STD." Ouch.
Discussion
These are the perfect five but I think there are so many things that can be grouped together to make him turn off :-D
Well Makeup doesn't hold for a long time, what matters is the sense of dressing which may include the fashion accessories also like replica bags and related stuffs and always the natural beaity of the persone works.
I agree with this article. I think that most men do agree with the points that were made here.
I went on a first date recently, it was a casual first date, and I was dressed in a cute shirt that had a plunge neckline in both front and back, but didn't reveal any cleavage, a pair of jeans that fit well, and flip flops. My makeup and hair was minimal, and apparently it really worked. We had a great time eating seafood in the lounge of a tendy place that overlooks the bay, and afterward we walked along the boardwalk overlooking the Gulf of Mexico. My attire was appropriate for the date, and he has made comment since that he really liked the way I looked that night. I didn't look like I was "over-doing" it.
All Women like.....All Men like....is crap! We are all unique individuals with our own preferences. As far as Marie Clair's male author....I have yet to find a male that agrees with this publications do's and don'ts. (On a year long quest to really find answers to the modern day Mars vs Venus.....) Actually, I am finding variety is the spice of life, depending on circumstances. I totally agree, for me, on the male don'ts, and add dress for the occasion. Shorts, flip flops, and Florida wear is not okay for a black tie affair. Also add the "Don't put your favorite cologne in the wash...there is a factor of too much. Then again the guys who don't wear deodorant because they smell manly, YUCK! Speedos out side of the swim team...EWWWW! The pants that made plumbers butt popular, or the ones where the guy has to hold his crotch to keep them up and waddle to keep from tripping over them. What is up with that? I like tight jeans on a guy-cowboy-or tailored fit, but big enough for two to three people is just ridiculous. I don't wear a lot of makeup or bling at anytime, and I never dress for women, I wear what I like and dress according to my mood of the day. Why do women dress to impress other women unless your lesbian? Don't get it. If I want a guy I dress for guys, but mostly I dress to make me feel positive, comfortable, confident, hot, etc. The only time I really dress to impress is for business. First impressions can make or break a deal. I do have clothes set aside for conservative family reunions, that I rarely wear at any other time. You want a guy? Little make up, heels for night life, flats for the amusement park/shopping. (nothing annoys a guy more than having to slow down because your feet hurt from wearing the wrong shoes. Anyone remember high heeled sneakers for the gym, or the thong outside the exercise shorts? ) Dress to make yourself feel confident, sexy, positive. So far according to my questions and answers I have received, real men are attracted to the character and personality you project. Want to know what men think? Ask! Don't have any guy friends to ask? Go to YouTube and type in "What Men Think".......
If men don't like too much makeup, or cleavage hanging out, then why are the strip clubs full every night? Dang hypocrites! Overly sexed woman?????? So we should be undersexed so you can tell all your buddies how bad we were in bed??!!!!!!!! This is a completely Boooooooooh, post.
Men like women in strip clubs because they know they can't have them - they don't want to take them home to meet momma - they just want to look at them and fantasize about them. From my experience - and I've been around a few years - men want a woman who is reserved out in public but hot in the bedroom - and believe it or not - if you're really hot and sexy - they aren't sharing that information with their friends. They want you to look attractive but they don't want other men drooling all over you.
It's about image. When you see an attractive woman in layers of makeup, skintight clothes, covered in fake bling, with her boobs and butt nearly hanging out of her outfit, and she's pawing all over a guy...what do you think? "Slut." That's right, and that's what men apparently think as well.
Ummmmm, men don't go to strip clubs because of what the women are wearing or their make-up! I promise you! But the girls with the softest scents and least amount of makeup make more money! Strip clubs are for tits and ass......whole differnt topic from here.
I thank god my SO likes that my daily appearance is fluid and not rigid. On the weekends I get scruffy since I'm not it the office, and she likes it. During the week my mustache and goatee are neat, the rest is clean shaved and she likes that as well. I'm just as comfortable in board shorts and slippers as I am in a suit with vest and tie, and she likes that.
I love that when its just me and her she is comfortable in minimal to no make-up, a t-shirt and jeans. When its going out time her makeup is spot on, not excessive but used the way it was intended, to accentuate, and she dresses up and is still comfortable.
To me, the name of the game is comfort. How comfortable are you in your own skin? In the appearance you choose to wear that day?
Pave.Gurl has got the attention factor because she isn't trying to use make up, clothing, and jewelry to distract from inadequacies or to draw more attention for an ego massage. Her outfit says that she is comfortable and confident in herself, and there is nothing sexier than that!
An ex of mine used to rate her outfits for clubbing by if they were "slutty" enough. I met her at a business school where we had to dress in office appropriate attire. Finding this out sent out some warning bells but I let it slide. Later on I found out that she is a huge fan of Paris Hilton and the like, watching nothing on TV unless it was Paris' junk reality show, My Super Sweet 16, or any number of other garbage series like that that stress more importance on how you look than who you are. There really wasn't anything else to her, no depth or real character, just someone believing that they had to have the right look to fit in. When we get down to it, your appearance sends out the first impression of how you view yourself.
Yeah, about the scruffies...the only time that looks good is after you've spent the entire weekend having naked fun and haven't had a chance to shave. Otherwise it just looks lazy. And confidence is the sexiest thing on both men and women. So honey, if you wanna look like a porn star because that's what you think looks good, then find a guy that agrees. And dude, if you wanna wear a muscle shirt cuz ur so smooth, well...no, don't, because you're not. But then that's just my opinion. Lots of fish, people. Mix and match.
I have come to accept that women don't dress for us, if they did they'd listen and stop spending money on things that we either don't notice or don't care about.
1. If your make up looks like a clown mask it bespeaks of your class. It tells me you don't know how to apply the stuff and you don't have good enough friends that will tell you about it before you go out.
2. Personally, I like shoes. And a woman that can pick the right ones to set off an outfit is rare. However, I know I'm in the minority in this. Most men don't care about you High heels unless your going to wear them to bed.
3. The one that I hate is the gaudy jewry and accessories, especially when they are obviously fake. If you could afford a diamond that big or a real coach bag you wouldn't be getting into a Honda Civic. Be real.
4. While I do like to look at cleavage, it tells me your self conscious. That might sound a little odd, but let me explain. I'd like to thing that if you had something more to offer me, you wouldn't have to hang your stuff out for the world to see to get some attention. I know that any attention is better than none at all, but have some self respect and we'll have some respect for you.
Women DON"T dress for men! That's true, we dress to impress other women. That's totally smack on.
1. very true
2. the same goes for men and how they care for their footwear
3. they are driving a civic because now that they spent 3000 on a stupid bag thats all they can afford to drive.
4.i concur however this doesnt mean that a woman should run around in a turtleneck all year (think "Somethings Gotta Give"
You know, coming from the just entering the twenties, semi-attractive female angle. I have to say that showing cleavage isn't all that self conscious. It usually means my feelings have been stomped or ripped apart by some other vivacious female who we semi-respect or look up to-or even a guy who crushed our feminine ego. :(
Sometimes we just need a confidence boost. Same thing with applying too much make up or wearing high heels with legging tight blue jeans. Its all about superficial band aids.
too much make up is a no no regardless of what a man thinks. as far as bling... if you bought it wear it! maybe not so much of it you end up looking like a "Mr.T starter set". As for dressing slutty, well girls, thats what our best friend is for because unlike anyone else she'll tell ya to your face OMG no you absolutely can not wear that bleepin out fit!!! I say wear something flattering. Just remember no matter what you wear, be comfortable in it! nothing worse than being out and constantly having to tug your skirt down or re-adjust your top eight times before you even get to the destinatio! Men love us and think we are the most sexiest when we are comfortable and relaxed.
too much make up is a no no regardless of what a man thinks. as far as bling... if you bought it wear it! maybe not so much of it you end up looking like a "Mr.T starter set". As for dressing slutty, well girls, thats what our best friend is for because unlike anyone else she'll tell ya to your face OMG no you absolutely can not wear that bleepin out fit!!! I say wear something flattering. Just remember no matter what you wear, be comfortable in it! nothing worse than being out and constantly having to tug your skirt down or re-adjust your top eight times before you even get to the destinatio! Men love us and think we are the most sexiest when we are comfortable and relaxed.
Hear hear!
A date texted me in advance of our date to ask, "would you prefer me to be clean shaven or to be scruffy tonight?" I was so thrilled. Clean shaven, of course, and thank you for asking, sweetie.
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What about when guys lie about stuff just to make us think that they have a lot in common with us
Or My personal fave: Would you marry me & have my children???
Hell-o! We wonder where all the stupid people come from....It's from females who get knocked up with this trashy line!!!!
I see so many men complain about make-up, when in fact, it's all over the porns that they LOVE to watch
When will Men learn that when you point your finger at someone, look at your hand. You're pointing three more fingers back @ yourself
Fake this out
Most men are not looking at the porn stars makeup! You could put a bag over the porn stars heads and they wouldnt even notice. The reason men watch porno is for 2 reasons usually of course there are exceptions.
1. The woman usually have nice bodies! flat tummy"s ect ... SO i see it as they want someone who takes car of themselves and looks healthy.
2. Most men watch because they have fantasies and they would like if their woman tried some experimenting with the type of stuff they do in porno's, they want exciting (hey who doesn't). With some men if their woman is willing to get a little freaky from time to time may watch less porno!
Either way... Believe me they don't watch it for the makeup at all.
