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Hairy Women Have Better Sex

Orgasms come easier to women with dense, dark body hair, research shows.

For ladies whose arms, lips, stomachs or other frustratingly hairy body parts require constant maintenance: there is an upside!

Yes, hirsute (hairy) women might have to shave, wax and pluck more often than the fair-haired brethren, but new research reveals hairy ladies have better sex than their less hairy counterparts. Apparently our body has two types of hair: vellus and terminal. The vellus hair is fine, non-pigmented and unresponsive to hormones. Terminal hair, on the other hand, is generally long, coarse and dark. It also changes based on our hormones.

So, the unfortunate mustache post-menopausal women often battle? That's terminal hair on hormones. How does this relate to sex, you ask?

Here's how the Times of India describes the connection:

Since hirsute women have higher levels of testosterone, both the clitoris and the G spot are thought to respond to the hormone. Women capable of orgasm during penetrative sex have a thicker tissue area in the region between the vagina and the urethra – meaning it's now easy to medically tell the difference between the lucky "cans" and the "can-nots".

Many women don't have orgasms from intercourse alone, hence the plethora of gels, shots and tips to try and make it happen. For those who've tried to no avail, that their chemical makeup is to blame may or may not provide relief. Of course, an increased level of testosterone is not the only factor. Painful conditions like vulvodynia make sex, let alone orgasm, virtually impossible for some women.

Love Buzz wonders which trait women would prefer: the ability to orgasm through intercourse or easy-to-maintain body hair?

 

 

Can you relate?

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Symian Complicated Hiding my true feelings...
Posted July 6, 2009

I'm not a "hairy" woman, and the hair I do have is fine and blond. I have a super-high sex drive and I can have an orgasm during a good yoga session. Maybe this hair thing has some influence, but there are many things that factor into being able to orgasm during penetration. I did not experience this until my mid twenties, before then I wasn't even concerned with it.

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naughty nene Single Creepy,Kooky, Mysterious and Spooky!
Posted May 19, 2009

I am a naturally hairy woman, though I shave, wax and pluck... and according to the guys I have been with I get off easier than anyone they have met. This is from penetration not clit stimulation [ which is fantastic on its own but can not compare to the sensation of a vaginal orgasm :-) ].

Teach a guy to do the come here motion while playing with you with his finger inside the vaginal canal and he should stimulate your g spot. He needs to be pressing against the front part of the vaginal wall firmly but gently and then going back to a straighter finger position. You will know if he got the right spot right away. If he continues to stimulate this area you might have a sensation like you have to urinate. Thats not what that feeling means so learn to not freak out and remain relaxed and aware of what you are feeling.

It will happen quicker than you think if you keep an open mind and do not dwell on things like how you look or feel to the person doing the stimulating. Once he knows where that spot is, it is it is easier to direct him while having actual intercourse and trying to get the full stimulation from the use of his penis.

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aviva Single love
Posted April 28, 2009

it was god will that give every human hair so its good to have it....

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brokenglass911 Complicated Crazy, Beautiful, Outspoken, Hated
Posted April 10, 2009

I'm hairy... and I'm usually in the mood, but I don't think that I have better sex than anyone else. I'd much rather have less hair on me!

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aviva Single love
Posted April 28, 2009

HEY YOU NEED TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR HAIRY THING...

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Posted February 21, 2009

Its such crap that high testerone hairy thing. I am constantly horny and I am 25 and blonde with hardly a hair on me. The reason why I want so much sex is I have always asked for what I want and orgasm every time with all the men I have been with. I am now married and I am aware that I want sex so much cause I constantlysatisfied. If a woman is satisfied then she will alwasy be horny. Its a pretty simple concept I dont know why some people cant seem to grasp it lol. I orgasm through sex very easily all you have to do is get in to a position to rub your clit and its got nothing to do with the amount of hair you have lol.

From a woman thats got blonde hair on her body and you cant see a hair on my legs even when they are longer and orgasming from sex is simple if you ask for what you like things like this are in peoples heads

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Posted February 21, 2009

Oh, the sex is fantastic! And clit stimulation is just an added benefit, not a necessity. Multiple orgasms that cause you to writhe in ecstasy? I'll definitely take the time to shave and wax for that!!

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cassie Taken
Posted February 17, 2009

I'd rather have less, worse sex than spend hours each week waxing, shaving, electrocuting and plucking... trust me... its not worth it.

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nubiancoco Single
Posted January 28, 2009

MAYBE I SHOULD LET MY HAIR GROW.

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Posted February 8, 2009

lol, it's not about letting your hair grow. It's about whether you're naturally hairy or not.

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