So you've finally mustered up the courage to talk to that person that you've been crushing on for months. Now that you're ready to take it a step further, you feel your nerves suddenly taking over. Falling for someone is the easy part; knowing whether you are actually ready for a relationship can be tricky.

Relationship expert John Gray is joined by YourTango experts Tammy NelsonSusan HeitlerAnnie Gleason and Margaret Paul to discuss the reasons why although being with the right person is very important, it may be even more important to BE the right person before you can find the right relationship.

Are you truly ready to take that next step? Check out the video above to see why the only way to fall in love is to first love yourself and the rest will come naturally.

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