In my coaching practice, I see various types of women of all ages, backgrounds and professions. Most of them are getting over the man who blew into their lives as a fantasy, great lover or trustworthy confidant, whom they eventually fell in love with only to end up heartbroken. What I found fascinating is that although many of these women suffered with intolerable heart break that they no longer wanted to feel, they also refused to take my advice or let me help them because they did not want to let go of the euphoria invoked by the memories of a man who broke their heart. When my clients explain to me their stories from beginning to end, I immediately see the red signs from the start. It also becomes clear to me that these men were able to manipulate and seduce these women because of their emotional vulnerabilities at the time. Single In Italy: A Recipe For Seduction [VIDEO]
Many of my clients came to me not wanting to get better or get over the "Don Juan" who left them blue, but would attempt to use our sessions together to fill the void left after the absence of the love they thought they once had. After studying The Art of Seduction: An Indispensible Primer on The Ultimate form of power by Robert Greene, I was able to learn so much about why some women are easier to be seduced than others and what characteristics make a woman more seducible than another. Read below and discover if you are a seducible woman who is at risk of heartbreak if the right 'Casanova' comes along!
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1. Dissatisfied With Life: It may be that she is unhappy with her job, her marriage or life in general...but this single woman who's dating is an easy target for the sophisticated seduction of a man with short term plans for love in his life. Women who are dissatisfied with their life are easy to be seduced because the 'Casanova' simply needs to fill that void or take their minds off of their unhappy reality by creating a fantasy that provides a temporary escape from reality. If you want a healthy love experience to show up for you, start today and begin falling in love with yourself and your life. If there is something you are dissatisfied with, change it and create the reality you desire...and only then will you be a hard target for a seducer on the loose! Do You Love Yourself?