4 Blowjob Tips That Make Men Scream With Pleasure

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He'll be begging for more.

Have you ever wished there was a secret switch you could flip to make your man moan louder, twitch more, and give YOU the power to bring him to the brink of orgasm whenever YOU choose? If so, try these four blow job tips to give him the best oral sex he's ever had.

1. Forget everything you think you know about blow jobs.

After surveying thousands of men and asking them what made a blow job the best he ever had, one thing topped the list by a HUGE margin: your attitude. It’s how much you enjoy it, and how you demonstrate to him that you enjoy it.

This quote from the surveys really nails it: "I don't want an amazing blowjob ... I want her to love GIVING me one!"

Now, since this is the most critical factor in giving your man the best head he's ever had, do you think teasing him by "not quite letting him have it" is going to turn him on? Of course not. Instead, reverse the psychology when you go down on him. 

Show him that YOU want to devour him and can no longer take not having him in your mouth. Ask him if you can "please just give it one little kiss," and then ask (nicely) for just a lick. Let him know how delicious he is and that you really want to put him in your mouth, "just for a minute or two." Create the illusion that he’s the one in control and that he’s the one teasing you.

2. Step up your "handy" work.

Your mouth, lips and tongue can create incredibly pleasurable sensations, unlike any other part of your body. Throw in just a few new hand play tricks and you’ll really bring your "head game" to a whole other level.

If he’s standing, you might "hold on" to his butt or hamstrings just strong enough to let him know you don’t want him going anywhere. It’s a very subtle, yet effective way to amplify his arousal by reassuring him that you enjoy the most intimate part of him.

Few women ever use this trick, and when you do it punctuates your "performance" with a monstrous exclamation mark. After your guy comes, there’s always a little "left in the chamber." To get that little last bit out and make him feel completely empty, press the tip of your thumb up against the meaty part that runs across his entire length (on the underside of his shaft).

Apply a little pressure there (with just the tip of your thumb) as you stroke him back and forth with your four fingers wrapped over him. Doing this squeezes every last drop out of him like a tube of toothpaste. Repeat this a few times to make sure he’s totally empty and completely satisfied.

3. Master the art of dirty talk.

A lot of women struggle with confidence when it comes to talking dirty. What’s really unfortunate is that many of them look to porn for ideas. It’s a huge mistake! Why? Most guys in the adult industry are much bigger than average.

One of the most common things you’ll hear a porn star mention is her co-star's size.

"You're soo big!"

"I love big d**k!"

"I don’t know if I’ll be able to take all of it."

If your guy is bigger than average, it’ll be a great ego boost to hear you say it. However, if he isn’t bigger than average, don't say he is. He knows he isn't. He's watched porn and seen other guys in the locker room. Telling him that he's big when he knows he isn't will make him wonder if you're lying about other things in bed.

The trick is to boost his ego with believable compliments. If you’re man is average sized, tell him his it's "perfect." Tell him that you love it, and that you love feeling him grow and twitch in your mouth. Also make sure your compliments are directed to him specifically.

There’s nothing wrong with being promiscuous; we all want to feel special, wanted, and chosen over others. So avoid saying things like, "I love giving head," and instead make him feel special, wanted and chosen by saying, "I love giving YOU head." This type of dirty talk really plays on the psychology of oral sex and takes your blow job to another level beyond just the physical sensations.

4. Discover his version of the "best blow job" and then give it to him.

We all know that different guys like different things. Some guys like a lot of hard suction, while others prefer little to no pressure at all. Some guys want you to spend most of your time pleasing just the head, and others prefer it when you deep throat and focus on the shaft. Some guys love having their balls played with, while others will cringe at the lightest touch to their jewels.

The bottom line is if you want to give your man the absolute best blow job, you’ve got to learn what his version of that is. Then and only then can you give it to him. Never assume what drove one guy crazy will work for another.

If you're ready to be the best she's ever had, watch Nick Hardwicks Video The 67 Ways To Make Her Come. If You're a woman and want to make your man melt, watch Nick's BlowHisMind.com Video.

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