Talking dirty is surprisingly easy. I'm going to give you a very simple roadmap that is going to teach you how to talk dirty to your man without getting nervous or feeling awkward about it, while turning your man on in a big way!
(P.S. If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips, tactics & techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video)
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A massive problem when it comes to learning how to talk dirty to your man is that most people think that in order to sound sexy and hot you need to be over-the-top, graphic, vulgar and nasty when choosing your words. I'm not sure why so many people believe this, but I have a sneaking suspicion that it's because most people's first contact with dirty talk is through pornography.
Anyway, let me enlighten you with a really easy way to learn how to talk dirty.
Start With Something This Easy - The first thing you need to do when learning how to talk dirty to your man is doing something so easy that there is no chance for failure.
This is perfect for building up your confidence.
The easiest thing you can do if you want to be more vocal in bed is to simply sigh, moan and groan louder than you normally would. This works best if you have your mouth right next to your man's ear. So what kinds of things should you moan. It really is easy:
That's it. There is literally nothing else you need to do to start talking dirty and show him that you are enjoying yourself and that he's turning you on. If you are looking for more specific dirty phrase to say to him, then you may find what I talk about in this video to be very helpful
The Next Step In The Dirty Talking Process - Once you have tried moaning, breathing and sighing in your man's ear more loudly than normal, the next thing you need to do is take it up a notch. You are going to start actually using words when talking dirty.
Thankfully this again is very easy. You aren't going to be using super long sentences or dirty talk phrases. You are simply going to be using 1 or 2 words. So what kinds of things can you say to your man? Try these dirty talking examples:
- Don't Stop
- Keep Going
It really is as simple as what you've just read. You don't have to shout these phrases either, simply whispering them in your man's ear works perfectly. After trying these dirty words with your man and you have built up your confidence a bit, start switching between sighing and using dirty words. If you only get this far with talking dirty, you'll already be ahead of the majority of women learning how to talk dirty.
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