How To Give A Great Hand Job: 7 Tips

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How To Give A Great Hand Job: 7 Tips
Incredibly Powerful Sex Tips: Learn How To Give A Hand Job That Your Man Loves!

There is a right way and a wrong way to go about giving your man a great hand job. Today I want to show you the right way to give your man some hand lovin'. Thankfully it's not rocket science. Concentrate on just getting a few of the following things right and your man will be in heaven when you put your hands down there.

(P.S. If you want to learn my best oral sex techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video)

Hand Job Foreplay - Rather than just grabbing his penis and giving him a hand job as fast as you can, you'll find that it's way hotter to slowly build up to it with what I like to call "Hand Job Foreplay".

Start by just kissing him like you normally would. While kissing him, slowly lower your hand towards his crotch outside his clothes. Slowly brush past his crotch and start to softly rub the inside of his thigh.

After doing this for about a minute, slowly move your hand over his groin area (while still outside his clothes) and start to gently grab and massage his penis. At this stage, you should hear him starting to groan and sigh.

Now it's time to slowly unbutton his trousers and slip your hand inside his briefs to slowly hold grab hold of his member. But there's no need to speed up just yet. Do everything very slowly and sensually so that you give your man time to enjoy each and every one of your touches.

If you are not getting too caught up in the heat of the moment, then you can make this hand job foreplay last for up to 10 minutes.

The 2 Hander - Many girls never properly learn how to give a good hand job to their man. As a result, they end up only ever using one technique. This is what I call "The Claw" where you simply grab him and keep tugging it up and down, non-stop, at the same speed until he orgasms without ever changing your grip.

This is not absolutely terrible, but it is quite boring (and often very tiring). A very easy way to change things up when jerking him off is to alternate between using one hand and using two hands on him. 

When you do this, you'll be able to stimulate both his shaft and the top of his penis. You'll also find that he thoroughly enjoys it when you switch between hands while giving him a hand job. 

Ball Sports - It goes without saying that your man's testicles are incredibly sensitive. In fact, they are the last place your man ever wants to get hit because they are so sensitive. The good thing is that you can exploit this sensitivity when giving him a hand job. If you want a detailed guide on how to give your man awesome oral sex, then you should watch this video tutorial

Midway through your hand job, give your hand a rest and slowly slide your fingers down towards his testicles. Now start to slowly and softly fondle them between your fingers. You can also cup them in your hand and gently squeeze them too.

As you move back up towards his penis, use your nails to scratch his testicles, but make sure to do so with a minimal amount of pressure.

Just remember that the entire time you are down there, you need to be gentle.

The Tippy-Top - The most sensitive part of your man's penis is.....the top. It's where you'll find the highest concentration of nerve endings on his entire body. So giving the top of his penis lots of attention should be a high priority.

The easiest way to focus your hand job on the top of his penis is to make an "O" shape with your index finger and thumb and put it over his penis. Then just slowly move it up and down about an inch or so. You really don't need to move it that much, just enough to stimulate the top.

Frenulum You Say? - For a lot of guys, another highly sensitive part is a tiny patch called the frenulum. The frenulum is located on the underside of his member. It is the piece of flesh that joins with the shaft on the underside. Just lightly running one finger over the frenulum is incredibly stimulating for your man.

The best way to rub his frenulum is to take a break from using one of my other hand job techniques on his shaft and just spend 20-30 seconds rubbing his frenulum with a minimum amount of pressure before switching back.

Softly, Softly - When you first start learning how to give your man a hand job, you may feel like speeding up as he starts to orgasm and shoot his load everywhere. The funny thing is that he will prefer it if you actually slow down and release the pressure as he is reaching orgasm.

You see, when he reaches orgasm, he will become incredibly sensitive to touch to the point where it actually feels painful for him when you touch it.

More Powerful Sex Techniques - If you enjoyed this article on how to give your man a good hand job, but want a true sex masterclass and want to learn how to give your man incredible oral sex, then you may be interested in the Bad Girl's Bible site. Inside you will learn everything you need to know to please your man from hand jobs to incredible sex to talking dirty. Click here to check it out now.

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