How To Give A Great Hand Job: 7 Tips

There is a right way and a wrong way to go about giving your man a great handjob. Today I want to show you the right way to give your man a handjob. Thankfully it's not rocket science. Concentrate on just getting a few of the following things right and your man will be in heaven when you jerk him off.

(P.S. If you want to learn my best blowjob tips & techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video)

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Handjob Foreplay - Rather than just grabbing his penis and giving him a handjob as fast as you can, you'll find that it's way hotter to slowly build up to it with what I like to call "Handjob Foreplay".

Start by just kissing him like you normally would. While kissing him, slowly lower your hand towards his crotch outside his clothes. Slowly brush past his crotch and start to softly rub the inside of his thigh.

After doing this for about a minute, slowly move your hand over his groin area (while still outside his clothes) and start to gently grab and massage his penis. At this stage, you should hear him starting to groan and sigh.

Now it's time to slowly unbutton his trousers and slip your hand inside his briefs to grab his cock. But there's no need to speed up just yet. Do everything very slowly and sensually so that you give your man time to enjoy each and every one of your touches.

If you are not getting too caught up in the heat of the moment, then you can make this handjob foreplay last for up to 10 minutes.

The 2 Hander - Many girls never properly learn how to give a good handjob to their man. As a result, they end up only ever using one technique. This is what I call "The Claw" where you simply grab his cock and keep tugging it up and down, non-stop, at the same speed until he cums without ever changing grips.

This is not absolutely terrible, but it is quite boring (and often very tiring). A very easy way to change things up when giving him a blowjob is to alternate between jerking him off with one hand and using two hands on him. If you want a detailed guide on how to give your man an awesome blowjob, then you should watch this video tutorial.

When you do this, you'll be able to stimulate both his shaft and the head of his penis. You'll also find that he thoroughly enjoys it when you switch between hands while giving him a handjob. 

Ball Sports - It goes without saying that your man's testicles are incredibly sensitive. In fact, they are the last place your man ever wants to get hit because they are so sensitive. The good thing is that you can exploit this sensitivity when jerking him off.

Midway through your handjob, give your hand a rest and slowly slide your fingers down towards his balls. Now start to slowly and softly fondle his balls between you fingers. You can also cup his testicles in your hand and gently squeeze them.

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As you move back up towards his penis, use your nails to scratch his balls with a minimal amount of pressure.

Just remember that the entire time you are down there, you need to be gentle.