I don't think that there is an easier way to spice things up and inject some fun into your relationship than by using some of these hot & kinky foreplay games with your man. You'll find that some of them are quite kinky and a little out there, while others may even seem tame.
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The key is finding the ones that excite both you and your man and then trying them out with him. So lets learn some hot and fun foreplay games!
1. First One To Break
Without a doubt, my favorite foreplay game that I teach (it also gets the best feedback!) is called 'First One To Break'. This foreplay game is so easy to play and thankfully it doesn't require any craziness or kinkiness from either of you.
To play it, both you and your man start off in your underwear. So your man will be in a pair of briefs of boxer shorts and you will be in a pair of panties and a bra. Next you need to hop into bed or just find somewhere comfortable around the house, like the living room. The goal that both of you will have during this game is to try and make the other person 'break' and initiate or ask for sex (oral, anal or vaginal).
To do this, you need to use all the techniques in your arsenal, from kissing to massaging your man and even running your hands over his crotch and massaging that too. Meanwhile, he will be doing the exact same to you, trying his best to turn you on and and make you 'break' and initiate or ask for sex.
The main rule that both of you must observe when playing this game is that neither you or your man are allowed to take off your underwear, unless one of you can't take it anymore and 'breaks'.
You might be wondering why this foreplay game, 'First One To Break' works so well. The simple reason is that it is fantastic at building sexual tension all the way up to the point where one of you will literally do almost anything for sex.
2. Just The Tip (Variation Of First One To Break)
'Just The Tip' is a really awesome variation of the previous foreplay game. This time instead of having your underwear on, it needs to be off. The rules this time are going to be exactly the same, except this time, you can both tease each other right up to the point where your man is just about, barely entering you with 'just the tip' of his penis.
You can even tease him with oral sex, by just licking his penis ever so it with your tongue. If you want more awesome bj tips, then you might be interested in this detailed video tutorial.
This is again great for building sexual tension and keeping each other on edge. The goal is to try and make your man ask for or beg for the full thing by turning him on as much as possible without giving in yourself. The fun thing is that your man will be doing the exact same thing himself!
The winner is the person who holds out the longest. The loser has to do a forfeit like giving the winner oral sex or bringing them breakfast in bed.
3. Strip Poker & More
Everyone has heard of strip poker as a foreplay game. The idea is that the person who loses each round has to take off a piece of clothing.
But the truth is, not everybody enjoys strip poker. The problem is that there are too many rules to learn when playing strip poker to make it fun. Not only that, but it often ends up getting a bit too serious and this seriousness ends up killing the mood.
Thankfully though there are a lot of fun alternatives to playing strip poker with your man. Instead of playing poker, you can try using quiz questions from a game like Trivial Pursuit or even questions based on your favorite book, TV show or movie. So what I always advise couples to do is to decide on a game that they both really enjoy (even if it happens to be poker) and use that to decide who takes off their clothes.
4. Tease Him With Your Clothes
This next foreplay game is very simple. It's again about teasing your man to the point that he literally wants to rip your clothes off and take you right then and there.
The next time you are both going to be alone, wear something that you know your man adores. It could be a sweater, a pair of yoga pants or even a some lingerie and a pair of stilettos. Then when you are both alone, act as if nothing is different, except make sure to tease and touch him more than usual.
Then when he trys to escalate physically, gently rebuff him and say, "Not now honey, maybe later". Doing this is incredible for building sexual tension and building a passionate desire in him. Just remember not to tease him for more than an hour or 2, otherwise he may end up feeling more frustrated than anything else.
These 4 foreplay games will definitely add spice to your relationship, but foreplay is just one aspect of having great sex. Another aspect is learning how to talk dirty to your man. This instructional video on talking dirty will get you up to speed fast. If you want my most powerful and kinky oral sex tips, you can find them all in this tutorial video.
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